Want An Asian Guy

I am Australian and I like Asian men. But why is it so hard to find one who wants me? Is itbecause I already have a son?
Jacks85 Jacks85
26-30, F
5 Responses Jan 2, 2013

Man, i love the aussie accent. Btw- i'm asian and have 3 kids of my own. Dont mind dating a single mom, actually i prefer to date someone with kids. That way the other person knows / understands the importance of time and priorities.

I'm Asian guy who would die to hang out and be in a relationship with. White girl. But ever time I asked a white girl out or buy her a drink she turn me down :( i can only admire those guys who are dating a white girl.:)

More than likely...it doesn't have to do with you having a son. Rather, there is probably a cultural thing going on. Asians that I've known aren't overly forward. They don't want to offend anyone. It's been my experience that the more I try to find a girl...the harder it is. When I stopped looking...the girl of my dreams came to me.

i don't know your situation but i would say go teach english in Asia for a year, 6 months. Take a class in an asian language, watch asian cinema, take martial art classes. hang out where the asian men are. Knowing their cinema, understanding their culture would go a long way.
In traditional cultures you marry within your culture but of course there are many examples where that was broken.

Possibly if the Asian guys you approach are not westernized enough.
(Divorce is rarer in Asian countries although things are changing as the Asian societies are developing individualism values). So guys like me who is still under Asian-Asian cultural influence might be reluctance to approach someone with kids.