D/s Relationships, My Intro 101.

I am a female slave. Many don't know what that is or what it means, although a certain book seems to be getting the word out. That book is a fantasy, it doesn't reflect a real D/s relationship and I think it has done a lot to water down what a true D/s relationship is. I know the number of vanilla women on D/s websites has exploded recently, and that is the only explanation I can find.

Good luck to those ladies. Most will find that a true power exchange relationship is difficult to find and even harder to maintain.

Being a slave hasn't got anything to do with sex. Sex is a logical expression, just a sex is an expression of love in any caring relationship, but sex is not the substance of the relationship. A good Master will use sex to the advantage of both hm and his slave however, as a tool.

While I am no longer an owned slave I am still a slave at heart. One person recently asked me if that was the same as the sound of one hand clapping. Yes, it is. Good analogy I say. But on the other hand (pun intended) it isn't.

A D/s relationship has much in common with any other relationship. The basics are the same. The people involved need to be healthy and well balanced, even more so than in a vanilla relationship because of the power exchange involved. In a vanilla relationship both can lead. In a D/s relationship the Master must lead or the relationship ceases to exist.
SoReal1966 SoReal1966
41-45, F
Sep 21, 2012