Maintenance Spankings - A Must In Any Home.

Maintenance discipline is a practice of giving your wife regular spankings to maintain her proper behavior and attitude. From our experience when Kim receives this type of discipline she is more humble and her attitude is greatly improved.

Whether you as an HOH decide to conduct these on monthly, weekly or daily schedules is up to you. I have found that daily spanking work best for Kim.

Maintenance spankings help to remind her to be on her best behavior and to help keep her attitude in the proper manner, letting her know that she is required to maintain her behavior and not slip into being careless and disrespectful to her HOH.

When a woman has not been punished for some time, the memory of the painful spanking she received due to her bad behavior will start to fade and the wife's attitude may change for the worse. With a regular maintenance spanking she is reminded of just how painful a punishment spanking is and that she is required at all times to act accordingly.

Another reason for the maintenance spankings is to re-establish the emotional and intimate connection of the wife and the HOH, bringing out the Masculine energy from the HOH and the feminine energy from his wife. All women crave this energy. This energy is what couples feel when they were still all flowers and sunsets.

A maintenance spanking will also give your wife the much needed stress relief that has built up since her last punishment spanking, allowing her tears to flow hence relieving her stress.

Along with the stress release, a maintenance spanking will also benefit your wife by showing her you are committed to the LDD relationship.

Some men will not discipline their wives due to fatigue, busy schedules, or fear of really taking control; with a regular maintenance spanking you can overcome this obstacle.

Regular maintenance spankings also provide to your wife that you care enough for her, that she is worth the trouble of regular scheduling spankings, and remind her that you as her HOH will enforce punishments when they warrant for her behavior and attitude. By spanking her on a regular basis will also serve as constant reminder of the love and commitment you have for her, allowing her to fully appreciate that you are the HOH and are in charge.

Remember that just as with a punishment spanking a maintenance spanking should be done long and hard enough to produce tears, allowing her to cry freely and release any stress she has built up, feeling the energy of your masculinity, and the love you both share for each other.

Most men tend to only spank for punishment, when I did this with Kim I found her behavior and attitude to be worse; after some discussion and the implement of maintenance spankings Kim's behavior changed for the better.
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7 Responses Nov 29, 2012

If I were spanked for no reason I would become angry, resentful, and rebellious. I always cry when spanked for bad behavior and have never known Mr. D to just over look his responsibility. Part of living this lifestyle is rewarding good behavior. I truly do not like to disappoint him to the place where I do earn a spanking. I would much rather have his praise than his hand on my backside. I think to often there is to much emphasis put on the spanking and not enough talk about the positive advantages of living in a DD, TIH, HOH life style. Whenever I tell Mr. D I don't like being spanked he tells me I'm not suppose to. I think Maintenance spankings should be something that is agreed upon and if the person who is being spanked does not want them then they should not happen. I think they have the potential to do more harm than good.

I am always spanked to tears (and beyond). It doesn't take much though.

That was my experience as well. Hated it, but was told that if a spanking was in order then it needed to be an effective one. Not sure if it was by intent or just the way it worked out, but scolding and questions about if the lesson was being learned, etc. didn\'t seem to start until after I had started crying.

This is realy tru !!! I agree apsolutly with you !!! My husband spank me and i realy need this. Its discipline and its make me free from stress..after he spank me i feel more love and respect to my husband!!!

It does work on many women.

Granted not matilda.

Not much works on matilda :)

Well not hopeless. I just have a different opinion on what you need.

chuckle, not in this forum

Its work yes and woman after spanking respect her husband more !

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Can not imagine receiving very sound spankings, on a regular basis, for maintenance. I'd really struggle with that! Although, I guess I could imagine (perhaps grudgingly) that they might be effective.

I don't get regular maintenance spankings, but I am spanked when I misbehave. Sometimes, though, when I've done something especially idiotic, like getting stopped for speeding, I'll get a spanking, then a few days or a couple of weeks later I'll get a reminder spanking. Sometimes I've had reminder spankings as late as a month after doing something wrong. I am always spanked to tears, and the reminder spanking is always just as hard as the original spanking. How do you decide when it's time for a maintenance spanking?

I would like to know the same thing. When do you know it is time for maintenance spanking???

I do not believe in maintenance spankings. It would only anger me and cause resentment. But I guess if your mate does not mind it's ok for your relationship. But it's not going to work for everyone.

Can I suggest, that after a period of time, see if going to once a week is sufficient? This will allow her to grow as a person. That's the goal of all HOH's, right?