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What I wouldn't give to completely control when and how a man has an ****** ;)
xMistressAx xMistressAx
18-21, F
15 Responses Jul 28, 2010

What I wouldn't give to let you completely control when and how i have an ****** ;)

For what it's worth! i met my denial queen, we are looking for a place together and then chastity belt shopping we go.

Thanks..I would suffer for your enjoyment..and your control of my *******.i hope to meet some one like that.

Sorry, but, I have a hard time believing that long story. I can accept total submission. I can accept giving the lady total control of *******, or lack of *******. I can accept being required to demonstrate total submission in front of anyone the lady chooses. But, I can't understand the concept of someone caring about someone else, yet "requiring" them to drink urine, which is effectively poisonous. There are plenty of ways to demonstrate total submission without things that are that intensely degrading, disgusting, and grossly unhealthy. If any woman wanted me to drink urine, I would immediately know that she did not care about me in the least, and only wanted someone who would let her torture them. I suppose there are people like that, because the world is filled with all kinds of perversions. But, minimally, I would want my mistress to care about me and my well-being.

I have been controlled by my wife Mistress L for over 15 years. It was something we agreed on at the start, but now i some times made a big mistake. Although i realize that it is to late to change as L loves the arangement and will not even discuss a change. L demands either orall or a male strap-on and servicing at least 3 or 4 times a week. And i am lucky to ****** 3 or 4 times a year

You may find it easier than you may think.<br />
I along with several other men have no problem giving up control to the right woman.<br />
You need to just find the right man. Be sure you know what you want. Is this going to be a short time one time kink for fun thing, or are you looking for a life style LTR thing a FLR.<br />
In either case you should be able to find a suitable mate. However in the case of a long term relationship to be truly happy... especially truly happy for a lifetime you should both have the same or similar goals and desires be explicit and honest with each other in your expectations.<br />
<br />
I found this only once in my life and that was a long term relationship.<br />
This wonderful and wise women who I first encountered as the result of a "proffesional arrangement" Introduced me to the submissive life style. To the point I was hooked after my very first encounter. She even said she had never seen a trnsformation happen so quickly, or some one not only accept but embrace their submissive style.<br />
She introduced me to this side of me so submissive to females. She had complete control of me after only one session together. Until then I was always a Bull type personality especially when it came to other males. I was alway kinder gentler and more understanding of the female.<br />
Being in leadership positions almost my entire life I had developed an alpha male a type personality. But this became quite stressful and I found myself becomming more and more agressive and assertive. I was on edge at all times until she introduced me to the art of submission. I became totaly hers she had me heart mind body and soul. God I miss her.<br />
She would not allow me release when I was not with her. She paraded me in front of her girlfriends as her slave a fact Imade sure to acknowledge to them That I was OWNED by her. Her property and I loved it.<br />
Very important to your point. She pointed out men were very easy to control when horny. The hornier we are the more easily you can control us. Once release is achieved we become less agreeable. I believe this to be completely true it is "the nature of the beast" This should become any prospective partners first test for you. Get him in a state of arousal and keep him there tease and deny him until he can stand it no longer. When you deem it time allow him release to the point of explosion. Then IMMEDIATELY test his submission to you by having him perform some act of devotion, and at least 1 slightly humiliating act. If you have a close girlfriend who is like minded and can be trusted bust him out in front of her for a trial. This is to test his true submission to you. Once the fluids have left we become less agreeable this is why the test must immeadiately follow his allowed release. Ask him if he wants to be yours to be controlled by you, and carefully measure his stated response. Then have him perform some minor acts of devotion. Slowly like Go get me something to drink, then onto you left some juice on me come here and lick it off. If he refuses the first "Dump him he is not whaty you are looking for If he refuses the second try to coax him gently asking You do want to be mine dont you then do this for me to make me happy etc. If he is un willing you have a lot of training to do. You must deide if he is worth your time and effort. If not to the curb he goes out with the trash and you continue your search.<br />
As I said my mistress pointed this out to me in session 1 and after allowing me my release said I had to prove my true devotion to her She straddled my face she was holding the just used condom inside herself she said I had another task to perform to prove my devotion and submission to her she starte lowering hersel over my face. Yhis was my first experience being a sub, so I resisted. She gently squeezed my nipples and asked did I want to make her happy I did she repositioned her self over me and called to her girl friend " I think he is going to need a little help with this. At that her friend came over and helped position and hold my head in place. Instead of being rough and demanding the were actually quite comfoting asking me is this not what you want with me mistress then lowered herself and my *** filled condom still inside her and squessed out my seed They had a good laugh but assured me it was going to be okay. She was breaking me down for my own good. They had one more test I was to recieve another mouth full of my mistresses pee. I resited at first but gave in next thing I had 2 beatiful women peeing in my mouth. On the way out mistress asked me what I thought I told her she just changed my life and I thanked her. I said I would be hers forever if she would have me.<br />
<br />
On the way out the door the bell rung and one of her friends had come to visit she spoke a few words in German and the three of themlaughed she turned to me and said Yes your dirty little secret is out I told her all about you. I laughed and basically said good tell all your friends I want them all to know. They can even watch. This actually some what surprised mistress but a nice smile did appear on her lips and a soft carress to my cheek as I bid her fare well.<br />
<br />
My mistress put me through a number of tests and concluded I was truly broken and wwas actually totally devoted to her.<br />
I allowed her to pee in my mouth in front of her friends. She leads me in a collar and leash in front of them as well. I lick her boots and *** as she wishes. She enjoyed having me do this infrot of her slaves. She tells them she pees in my mouth and I drink it and beg her for more. That she makes me swallow my own *** after every ******. I must acknowledge that these are the true facts I am her boot and foot licking, *** licking cumswallowing **** drinking love/sex slave.<br />
She was amazed at how fast I took to it EAGERLY we talked about that anumber of times I said let the whole world know. I am yours. and I like it.<br />
We became good friends and very attached she knew iwas totally devoted. What started as a proffesional relationship developed into much more.<br />
Alas we had a parting of the ways when I had to return from Germany to the states.<br />
The situation being what it was we decided we had to call it to an end<br />
<br />
Hope this gave you some ideas of what to look for. Be careful what you ask for you just might get it<br />
a relationship like this is harder on both parties than a traditional one. <br />
To be happy both partners must want the same thing.

You may find it easier than you may think.I along with several other men have no problem giving up control to the right woman.You need to just find the right man. Be sure you know what you want. Is this going to be a short time one time kink for fun thing, or are you looking for a life style LTR thing a FLR.In either case you should be able to find a suitable mate. However in the case of a long term relationship to be truly happy... especially truly happy for a lifetime you should both have the same or similar goals and desires be explicit and honest with each other in your expectations.I found this only once in my life and that was a long term relationship.This wonderful and wise women who I first encountered as the result of a "proffesional arrangement" Introduced me to the submissive life style. To the point I was hooked after my very first encounter. She even said she had never seen a trnsformation happen so quickly, or some one not only accept but embrace their submissive style.She introduced me to this side of me so submissive to females. She had complete control of me after only one session together. Until then I was always a Bull type personality especially when it came to other males. I was alway kinder gentler and more understanding of the female.Being in leadership positions almost my entire life I had developed an alpha male a type personality. But this became quite stressful and I found myself becomming more and more agressive and assertive. I was on edge at all times until she introduced me to the art of submission. I became totaly hers she had me heart mind body and soul. God I miss her.She would not allow me release when I was not with her. She paraded me in front of her girlfriends as her slave a fact Imade sure to acknowledge to them That I was OWNED by her. Her property and I loved it.Very important to your point. She pointed out men were very easy to control when horny. The hornier we are the more easily you can control us. Once release is achieved we become less agreeable. I believe this to be completely true it is "the nature of the beast" This should become any prospective partners first test for you. Get him in a state of arousal and keep him there tease and deny him until he can stand it no longer. When you deem it time allow him release to the point of explosion. Then IMMEDIATELY test his submission to you by having him perform some act of devotion, and at least 1 slightly humiliating act. If you have a close girlfriend who is like minded and can be trusted bust him out in front of her for a trial. This is to test his true submission to you. Once the fluids have left we become less agreeable this is why the test must immeadiately follow his allowed release. Ask him if he wants to be yours to be controlled by you, and carefully measure his stated response. Then have him perform some minor acts of devotion. Slowly like Go get me something to drink, then onto you left some juice on me come here and lick it off. If he refuses the first "Dump him he is not whaty you are looking for If he refuses the second try to coax him gently asking You do want to be mine dont you then do this for me to make me happy etc. If he is un willing you have a lot of training to do. You must deide if he is worth your time and effort. If not to the curb he goes out with the trash and you continue your search.As I said my mistress pointed this out to me in session 1 and after allowing me my release said I had to prove my true devotion to her She straddled my face she was holding the just used condom inside herself she said I had another task to perform to prove my devotion and submission to her she starte lowering hersel over my face. Yhis was my first experience being a sub, so I resisted. She gently squeezed my nipples and asked did I want to make her happy I did she repositioned her self over me and called to her girl friend " I think he is going to need a little help with this. At that her friend came over and helped position and hold my head in place. Instead of being rough and demanding the were actually quite comfoting asking me is this not what you want with me mistress then lowered herself and my *** filled condom still inside her and squessed out my seed They had a good laugh but assured me it was going to be okay. She was breaking me down for my own good. They had one more test I was to recieve another mouth full of my mistresses pee. I resited at first but gave in next thing I had 2 beatiful women peeing in my mouth. On the way out mistress asked me what I thought I told her she just changed my life and I thanked her. I said I would be hers forever if she would have me.On the way out the door the bell rung and one of her friends had come to visit she spoke a few words in German and the three of themlaughed she turned to me and said Yes your dirty little secret is out I told her all about you. I laughed and basically said good tell all your friends I want them all to know. They can even watch. This actually some what surprised mistress but a nice smile did appear on her lips and a soft carress to my cheek as I bid her fare well.My mistress put me through a number of tests and concluded I was truly broken and wwas actually totally devoted to her.I allowed her to pee in my mouth in front of her friends. She leads me in a collar and leash in front of them as well. I lick her boots and *** as she wishes. She enjoyed having me do this infrot of her slaves. She tells them she pees in my mouth and I drink it and beg her for more. That she makes me swallow my own *** after every ******. I must acknowledge that these are the true facts I am her boot and foot licking, *** licking cumswallowing **** drinking love/sex slave.She was amazed at how fast I took to it EAGERLY we talked about that anumber of times I said let the whole world know. I am yours. and I like it.We became good friends and very attached she knew iwas totally devoted. What started as a proffesional relationship developed into much more.Alas we had a parting of the ways when I had to return from Germany to the states.The situation being what it was we decided we had to call it to an endHope this gave you some ideas of what to look for. Be careful what you ask for you just might get ita relationship like this is harder on both parties than a traditional one. To be happy both partners must want the same thing.

It is WONDERFUL to have that control... I have had it a number of times in the past and it was always exhilarating!

I would love you to do that to me!

you are a very lucky sub that your wife would even think about letting you be released and service her ;)

I had another session last night where my locking device was removed after giving oral for over an hour. My wife has noticed a vast improvement in her sex life now that she is in complete control of how and when I am allowed release. Iwas allowed to have sex with her until she got off but I was not allowed any sexual release and was relocked shortly after pleasing her. Since it is her birthday tommorow, she has already told me that I might be allowed release only if I agree to clean up the mess with my tounge. Since I will be handcuffed to the bed, I'm pretty sure that she will get her way. The last time she did that, she discovered how cruel she can be to a very sensivitive ****. After tommorows session I fully expect to be locked up for a much longer period since she is already seeing the benifits of me not playing with myself anymore.

your should consider yourself lucky ;)

My wife now has that complete control over my ******* since I am curently locked in an all metal locking **** cage. She has made me service her several times since it was installed but she has not removed the cage yet.

`purrs`

i wish i was that man