It's About Time

I loved your story. You must be a beautiful women. By the way you view yourself, the way you see your body and your sexuality, attitude is so important .

Great story and lots of positive comments, too. Women who are happy about themselves and there bodies naturally come across as sexy. We've all seen women who should be like that - who look fine - and yet don't have that inner spark, a faith in themselves, if you like, and who therefore seem almost asexual.

Congratulations, more people need to have your view on that very refreshing.

I am married to a female bodybuilder. Her body is amazing! She has devoted years to building and shaping her physique. The one thing that amazes me is she is never satisfied. I think this stems from the naysayers we encounter. Even though she is complimented in public on her very muscular physique, I believe the critics comments stay with her the most and cut the deepest. I have asked her and she doesn't recall any episodes, but I have to wonder what event triggered her to build her body and give so much time to maintaining her amazing physique. I have told her, just as I am telling you, be yourself! You were made perfectly fine. When you are happy with yourself, people will sense that and feed on your positivity. Good luck with finding peace in who and how you are formed.

Good effort to make you Happy...

It's great to hear your hard work is paying dividends for you. I too have started working out again. Although the strength is slowing coming back, my waistline is still showing no signs of improvement.

Yes... we all eventually,

come to terms with the

real and loosen up the

hold of the Image in us.....



with very best wishes

Your attitude is terrific, L and your body?...



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xo

I think curvy women are sexy, especially when they are confident about their body and sexuality. I have not looked at your pictures (sadly you have not added me, yet), but you look great on the profile picture. I think more women should embrace their curves and sexuality. My wife is also curvy, I tell her how beautiful she is, but she never believe me.

very true

Ya ya ya ya ya ya ya, Go go go go go go for loving yourself and do make yourself healthier as you do the weight thing for your own good not for anyone else. It is a good feeling to feel that way, and common you got pictures that show beauty of you while being with weight so as well will have pics while loses weight as well and put both together will see same you, but one with small smile for feeling little much want to feel hot, and other with cheese smile and huge big smile for feeling healthy, hot and sexy as always :).

I have learned to love myself (curves and all) over the past year and a half...I feel sexier now than I ever have..its funny how when you learn to love yourself it shows and others around you begin to take more notice of you or when you are out and about people notice you..its a very great feeling!

In the near year we have known each other, you have always painted a portrait of a sexy and beautiful woman, why, because you are. Losing some inches and weight is good for the health, agree, changed my eating habits a couple of years ago. You brighten up this place with your comments, your smile, sharing about your kids, your hubbby. You are one of the sexiest and sweetest ladies on EP with curves or no curves, you are simply YOU and so many of us appreciate that, ladies and men alike

I love this short story that you have written here ... very refreshing and I like your attitude here and most importantly I like the way that you feel sexy, confident, and getting into a healthy lifestyle that you've mentioned here. I like your thinking here. Keep it up!

State of mind makes a world of difference. You seem to be a very positive person.

You are very confident and sexy.

oh its absolutely a state of mind, its in the way a woman carries herself, with confidence. A woman can be sexy no matter what her body type.

good for you, women should feel good about themselves and you are correct, attitude goes a long way!