I believe feeling sexy is more a state of mind than about how one looks. I am in the process of losing weight/inches to maintain a healthy life style. Even when I weighed more (which has been on here) I still felt sexy because of my curves and how I viewed myself. Over the past few years I have learned to embrace my curves and sexuality. I think there is power in embracing your body and sexuality. If you love your body then pretty much others will view you in a positive light. Don't get me wrong. I have days, like any woman, where I hate the way I look and want to crawl in bed and hide but those days are getting fewer and far between for me. It has been a long time coming.