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I'm A Woman Who Loves To Spank Men

I do not suffer fools (husbands, disobedient, surly men or women) gladly.

Hand, wooden spoon, hairbrush, comb, strap, belt (no cane - too big, not portable) are the things I use.

I would have no problem spanking you while we are out and about.  I have spanked a man (who was acting like a boy, annoying me) in a mall "family" bathroom.  I know he didn't think I was serious when I told him that I would not wait until we got home to punish him.  I took him to task and reddened his ***.  He walked the straight and narrow for the rest of our outing.

I say women should walk proudly and carry a large hairbrush!
ladygodiva110 ladygodiva110 41-45, F 30 Responses May 25, 2011

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Love your experience! You were right to spank that man. If he decides to be disobedient in a public place he should be ready to be spanked in a public place, too. I think he was even lucky to be spanked in the bathroom and not just in front of everyone!

I agree with you completely! When I misbehave, the punishment is always bare and hard. My wife punishes me daily---the more severe misbehaviour, the more severe the punishment. Normal routine punishment is a good hard bare bum belting. For worse misdeeds, I get it bare with the razor strap. Afterwards, I will get to massage her feet and lick her toes if I take my strapping well. If I am a good boy, she will let me smell her worn panties before I orally please her. She always finishes my punishment by giving it to me hard with her ten inch strap on. I worship the ground she walks on!!!!!!!!!

My wife does not enjoy paddling me and so its rare---but she will do it once in a while and when she does my bare butt sure feels it-- it has always been the way we take care of somethiung really serious at which i am at fault---it hurts my butt when i am getting it but I know I have earned it so there is no argument or I do not try to ever vget out of taking a paddling- When it is necessary i mostly just want it to be done fast and i take a shower and get it right then---if we are alone--When our children were in the hpise i would have to wait and comne home to get paddled and I hated waiting---__She does not enjoy it but its sort of like paddling a son--You got to do it so you do it

Women who punish men and enjoy it as a right are very rare indeed. For a woman like that I would gladly bend over her knee to experience her enjoyment.

I liked and enjoyed reading your story I like a no nonsense woman who spanks.

I am new to all this, EP and coming to terms with my life-long but repressed desire for this kind of woman in my life. Thank you for your "story". I tried to write you directly but you only accept messages from those in your "circle."

If women only knew the power that they have over men when it comes to spanking. Instead of flowers for gifts men would give a bouquet of hairbrushes and bath brushes to their wives. "D"

Maybe this is what the future holds for us. If my future wife would spank me regulary as punishment I surely would give her new hairbrushes or paddles as presents at christmas or her birthday to show her how much I appreciate her efforts to keep me in line!

Good story I personally am into spanking however as a african american guy its not as easy to find girls into spanking guys unless its brutal dom type which i'm not into. So to read this is very nice

Love your last sentence

Your closing line is great! And it describes the dynamics of my marriage perfectly. I am spanked over my wife's knee frequently. Lisa is naturally dominant and we both know I will receive the benefit of her strict discipline as she sees fit, including when we are outside the home. Anywhere will do as long as she can find a discreet place to take my pants down.

Some of us need our rears red, and foolishly, we like it.

You sound like a nononsense mother figure

I am a no-nonsense woman.

Whish to meet a girl like this. Like a good spanking so bad.

I am not a girl. I am a woman.

i wish i was near u to get my first spanking

I feel that the following spanking dynamics is OK: F/M, F/F, & M/F. I do not like M/M spanking. I personally am a man that enjoys being spanked by woman only!!! I like the idea that any time or place a woman can choose to spank a man for whatever reason.

Why is it so difficult to get woman that would love to spank men and boy's?. I searched all over but do not get anyone that want's to do that. I am great full that there is someone like you though, it gives me hope. Thanks

I can relate. My wife, who spanks me regularly, paddled me in a mall family restroom once. There was no one around when we went in as it was a quite day in the off season. When we came out - with my wife still holding her hairbrush - there were a couple of ladies standing down the hallway who gave us an amused look. I am quite certain that the smacks of the brush on my bare behind could be heard in the hallway outside.

Why can't people spend a little time and get a freaking avatar? What is the problem with getting a picture, a face or something?

I really never gave getting an avatar any thought but will now certainly do so in the near future. Thanks for pointing it out.

Not sure how to add one other than whats on here. Maam

Cool - wish you were in the UK

And good for you, Lady Godiva. There is no excuse for bad behaviour or lack of respect and it should be punished forthwith no matter where or how humiliating might be the circumstances - in fact, the more humiliating the punishment, the less likely the behaviour will be repeated.<br />
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We none of us are perfect and i for one confess to misdemeanours for which i am happy to say have been pointed out to me and for which i have been punished in such a way as i will never forget or take lightly my offence.<br />
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Once again, good for you!

I think it's important for the male to confess to the female when he's misbehaved. This way he will be more submissive to his punishment. The female should have rules about flirting with other females, having images on his computer, etc. If he should commit an offense like looking up a female's dress, the penalty should be more severe. Some offenses would call for multiple sessions. If he should commit more severe offenses, like looking at underage girls or having underage images, she might consider inflicting unconsciousness as a penalty. This can be done with sleeperholds or pressure points. Or the spanking might be administered to "where he did wrong".<br />
Any thoughts on this?

I posted my thoughts in my story. I'm don't care to discuss something that you don't understand.

Well, it certainly adds humiliation to the punishment. If you ever receive a public spanking, believe me it will curtail your poor behavior. I must admit, it does not happed often due to the public having cameras on every phone and they seem to have a need to report such actions. Even semi-public spankings carry the humiliation factor. Just others having the knowledge that you have just been spanked for poor behavior is very embarrassing.

I hate getting spanked hard by my wife, but thank god I never got it in a public place! That would be terrible!

It wasn't out in the open. It was behind closed and locked doors but it was still out of the home. Poor behavior needs immediate correction.

I do understand it was behind a closed door, but if you spank anything like my wife, it would be easily heard (especially my cries and carrying on). So, semi-public I guess.
Christian

I should say, I don't disagree with your right to discipline as you see fit. The dominant has the obligation to do so. It is only that for me personally, it would be extremely humiliating. Thankfully, my owner only has to say a word or two to the effect of 'do you need a spanking?' to calm me down in public.
Christian

I don't deal with pettiness. I don't like the term "owner." Nobody OWNS anybody.

Poor behavior does need immediate correction w/ a good bare bottom spanking. Great job ladygodiva110..... spankbudy

There were a couple of ladies standing in the hallway who I am sure overheard the spanking my wife gave me in a mall family restroom, although they were not there when we walked into the restroom. My wife walked out of the restroom with the hairbrush still in her hand because she wanted to make sure that anyone who might have overheard the whacks to know that she was the one doing the spanking! :-) But she would never knowingly spank me in view of others - with the exception of her sister who knows of our situation. She has taken me out to the storage shed at her Mom's house several times because she felt an immediate spanking was in order.

Well that is just as bad. Everyone involves knows you are getting spanked, so she may as well just do it in front of everyone!

I'm not judging anyone's right to discipline their husband/wife whatever, but I just don't really think the embarrassment of having it in public is at all necessary. That is just my personal opinion, and I also think that is possibly my wife's opinion because she has never done it (thank god). For me personally it is embarrassing enough when it is just her and I. But if it were in public, I truly believe it would be harmful to my pride.

Have you heard how one breaks a horse? They break their will, without breaking their pride. I truly think that my wife has my pride very much in mind, and doesn't want a robot for a submissive. I think she would very much prefer a real person with emotions and feelings all their own than a robot. Again, it is only my personal opinion given with all respect to those here and their significant others, take it how you will.

Well, to some small extent. The two ladies in the hall at the mall probably had a good idea that I had been spanked in the family restroom - but then I didn't know them and will probably never see them again. And when my wife takes me to the shed at her Mom's, no one knows what we are doing - usually they do not even notice we are gone. But you do make an interesting point about will and pride. We are actually, more or less, a typical "equal partnership" modern couple. In some matters, where I have expertise, I have the final say. But we have agreed that she has the say in disciplinary matters and that works well for us for a number of different reasons.

Well, you do seem to have a good attitude about it. And you seem happy, so that is good for you. :)

Also - on the trips to the shed at Mom's house, my wife typically uses a switch to avoid the noise. She really prefers the brush or paddle, as she enjoys the sound of the wood against my bare behind but if she feels I need discipline when we have company at the house or at her Mom's house, she uses the switch in an out of sight area. I once got a switching in the bedroom when we had a dozen folks over for a holiday dinner. Let me just say, I hate the switch.

That sounds much more discreet. Good that you don't have the embarrassment also to go with the spanking. I am sure the switch is bad. I have only ever had the cane. Good luck to you.

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I love it when woman use a hair brush to spank my bare fanny until my bottom is very red

I love the idea of being spanked and caned by women, particularly older or more mature women. In my every day life I am fairly dominant but there is something about surrendering control and becoming submissive for an hour or two. I cant get enough and actively seek out women that will punish me. Some will think me mad, but I enjoy it and have done so for some 20 years now.

Ma'am, you sound much like my wonderful Wife. She has done the same to me in a family restroom when I have misbehaved in public. Unless we are going somewhere that means she carries a smaller purse to go with Her outfit, Her everyday purse is large enough to have a hairbrush in it, & She carries it at all times. It hasn't happened to me often, but she has spanked me in public the same as you do more than once. If She has to spank me in public like that, I know I will get spanked again when we get back home.<br />
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If more women would take charge like you & my Wife do, men would be more obedient & better behaved.

So, true. I think it is great that you wife handles poor behavior immediately and follows up with a reminder spanking later.

Keep up the good work. You're doing a great job.

spankbudy

I agree. My former Domme was more into the humiliation aspect. My current Domme would rather punish in private. She just did not want to wait till we got home, much like you. So a bedroom at my friends home served us well. It did correct my behavior and I was embarassed facing others, but that was not the goal of my Domme. Now knowing that she would punish me without going home and knowing my friends were aware of the spanking will keep me in line.

It wasn't that I wanted to spank his *** but he asked for it by his poor behavior. I was going to finish what I needed to do without anymore lip from him. So, the family bathroom was the best place. I certainly couldn't take him into the ladies room. Other women shouldn't have to be exposed to his poor behavior. I wasn't going into the men's room. I wasn't looking to put on a show. I needed to make him have an attitude adjustment. I didn't want to walk back to the car to spank his *** besides, they have video cameras in the parking lot and I didn't want to deal with this being broadcasted on YouTube. I believe correction should be done in private and promptly. I'm not into embarrassing someone or humiliating them. Their behavior speaks for itself. So if they do something that embarrasses or humiliates them, that is their problem. He is obedient and that is all that matters.

I agree with your decision to punish at the time of the infraction. You found a semi-public place (family bathroon) to spank him. Once, out with a former Domme, after acting up and after several warnings, I was bare assed spanked on a bench in a public park. This was before every man, woman and child had a phone with camera and video option. The point is a public or semi-public spanking is very effective as it is humiliating and corrects the behavior. I was also recently spanked at a friends home. My Domme told me to go to a bedroom and wait for her. After taking a bare *** belting, and returning to the group, I knew everyone was able to hear the spanking. Very humilitating to have to face others after being spanked.

Wish you were closer,i like your style, and always need a good attitude adjustment.

No, YOU need to be closer, not I.

ladygodiva110,<br />
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Love it the Queen of discipline.<br />
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Bare Hugs<br />
Nudy