I'm A Woman Who Loves To Spank MenI do not suffer fools (husbands, disobedient, surly men or women) gladly.
Hand, wooden spoon, hairbrush, comb, strap, belt (no cane - too big, not portable) are the things I use.
I would have no problem spanking you while we are out and about. I have spanked a man (who was acting like a boy, annoying me) in a mall "family" bathroom. I know he didn't think I was serious when I told him that I would not wait until we got home to punish him. I took him to task and reddened his ***. He walked the straight and narrow for the rest of our outing.
I say women should walk proudly and carry a large hairbrush!