I like watching fires burning, but I don't burn destructively. We had an old barbeque that was basically just a metal tray about 6 inches deep. We were gonna throw it away but I kept the tray and use it for fires. Most of the time, it's just dried wood from the garden on chilly nights in my back garden (well, the patio area) but it has occasionally been burning letters or small gifts given by my ex. It's a beautiful symbol.