Am I the only lady around here who's discovered the eroticism of dressing your guy up in an all-in-one girdle or longline bra & panty girdle, with pantyhose after shaving his body (head too, if possible). When home alone together, I won't even speak to a partner if he's not dressed properly. From my experience, even the most unlikely man will learn to submit to this discipline when he feels he can trust you. When dressed, most guys I've had improve their performance 150%. Love me, love my lingerie!