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Exactly Why I Like Older Men.

Now, I am 21... Older in MY eyes is 30-40, I have been treated with way more respect and even taken seriously. As opposed to "BOYS" my age. Honestly I would take an older man over a young buck anyday. More Experience, More intuned with themselves, More understanding, More Sexy and way more smart. God Bless these men who know how to treat their women.
phoenixlight phoenixlight 22-25, F 15 Responses Jun 9, 2011

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With age comes wisdom...

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Hear Hear. Would love to talk to you. Add me?

From the opposite side as a man I find there is a different level of inner awareness of woman who like older men. In my opinion it is less about age and more about level of awareness as a person, be it a man or woman. In these cases I think what makes this work and attractive is simply what always works, two people connect. Some people are just ahead of their time, in this case women who like older men. I have seen the difference between sports teams as a coach of either an all girls team or an all guys team. Clearly the women were miles ahead, so when a woman is ahead of most women of her age it is natural for her to seek an older man. That said i would suggest that not every older man such women would find attractive for the same reasons many of the guys her own age she does not find attractive. Ergo mind before age.

This is a very perceptive comment. There are thousands of women who are clueless and are not looking... those that are have a level of awareness and a desire to speed up and enrich the levels of experience.... I am sure as a coach you are constrained, but hope you could find some older women to be around you and available to the men's teams you coach... When I was in my 20's (I got my older women training in my early teens) I had some submissives in the mid to late thirties as well as some housewives I was training for husbands... I found college sports teams and excellent resource for these women to gain confidence in their growing skills and the men were able to develop their emotional breadth.

I totally agree with you 100%!

Im with ya girl! boys kill me...lol...they cant offer my much of anything...main thing is the respect and always lookin after themselves!

my second wife was 13 years younger than me! we had 15 years of fun together! then, she turned 40 and wanted to be 20 again! now she's trapped in a smothering marriage with a jealous man! she can't even have friends! you never know what you've got until it's gone!

here here i definetly agree with you,im 22 and my bf is 47 we have been together nearly two years now.

I'm 50 this year, and I'd just like to say that older men have had more time to sort themselves out, regardless of any fetishes we may have. And boys of all ages have fetishes... Maybe us older ones have more refined fetushes!

yep but the problem is as long as you can keep it casual , to take it further there normally is no future in a relationship that has a 20 year age diffence , being 21 and 40 is ok for a while 10 years later its a whole different dynamic

I do have to play devil's advocate for a minute here, you can find just as many scumbags amongst older men as you do younger. If you have any doubts, check out the volume of men into everything from diapers to ****** to wife swapping on EP. Good character, good morals and values know no age.

and just how old are you??? not quite 30...now i understand your reply!!! thanks!

I would say you are absolutely right... There are huge numbers of scumbag men in general... Given ivo took the time to do the research, I would recommend at your age you find a woman 20 to 30 years older, who is cultured and sophisticated and get an education... You sound like a smart guy and even if you are genuinely good and older woman or 5 would help make you a great guy..

@RFLIS: very true and very besides the point.

it is such a pleasure to hear so many of you young women that realizes an older man has no macho **** to prove! we just appreciate what a woman has to offer and respect that! we understand exactly what your body is telling you and we also understand why! it's only a matter of time for a young woman to realize, there's a lot more than wam bam, thank you mam, to sex! older men will always appreciate a young woman's desire to be totally satisfied! not all of us are married!

I'm 24 and like men anywhere from mid-30s to 50s but all the ones I like are married :/ It's a sad story. haha

Nothing wrong with it at all. He knows how to treat you. That's all that matters! Age ain't nothing but a number. And I like my men how I like my wine. :) aged to perfection

i agree with u phoenxlight..i'm in the same situation, i'm 21 years old and my bf 34..so i've never been happy n' comfortable before now..he loves me respects nd cares for me like noone else did..u make me feel normal thank u so much cuz i feel all the time that i'm doing sth wrog:)