Love Older Men

Yes. You are right. Maturity comes with age, and maturity aids controlling and holding without fear. They can satisfy your needs as they are young in mind and love their partners sincerely

Age difference is huge not so much when partners are young but when someone scales Over the Hill wall then much is compromised in ability and stability.

There is something special about an older man, They have more knowledge, more life experiences. They are more sure of themselves and much more mature.

They age much better then women too - they just seem to get better looking with age.

sad sad story, im alone but I have a great friend tho he is 71 so I wonder about the death thing to. He gave some good advice.

Older men what a delight. I feel in love with a man 42 years my senior. What joy we were married. Joy filled 14 years, filled with love, happiness and fun. What pain. I knew I loved him with everything that was in me; at that moment he was called to be with the Lord at 83 years. I realized the depth of our love, deeper than and valley, wider than any sky and fuller than any ocean. The love of life ended at the second he left at 2:32 a.m. in the morning January 10, 2005. He left me with these final words,,, "Baby you'll never know how much I love you. Live, Laugh, Love and Love somemore." I'm search and reaching and want to do just that, my best friend is gone. Now I walk through the day alone, sleep when I can alone. I have all the world say I should have, a home, car, land, things all pain for. They are empty without the love and laughter of your best friend and soul mate. I would like to do what he requested, live, laugh, love and love somemore. You can not do it alone.

I with you Flugelblues...older men rock;)))

Thank you very much 1Gentleman! :)

Oh, we'd enjoy each other. You are a wise young woman...

hi ! could you find your choice or still waiting for more older ?

once you invite , it will be difficult to choose from long list.

however,i appriceiate your choice.since older aged men have also wish to get too younger/

pLEASE ADD ME TO YOUR CIRCLE. i'D LOVE TO SEE YOUR PICTURES. tHANKS!

TY! If you are looking for a younger woman then I am sure that you will find one. I wish you well in your search!

wish i could meet someone like you here in va beach, va

You are both right. I have found that a 10 year gap is perfect for me. My partner is 43 and I honestly don't notice that there is an age gap - we are just incredibly well suited in all ways.

When I was 21 I married a man 10 years older than me. lasted about 7 years.

Now I am engaged to a man that will turn 51 three days after I turn 41. I think the age gap stays. 10 years seems to be just about perfect for me. My loves late wife was his age mate, so this is new to him, to have a younger woman. I want a man that I can love, respect and adore. Men my age don't seem to understand any of those concepts. I wanted an extremely smart, older man. I found the most wonderful one I could ever imagine!



*grin* I don't care what anybody says. Older men have it!

A 14 year age gap is perfect. I met my sweetheart when she was 31 and I was 45. It's only gotten better through the years! Go for it!

Steve - if you read some of my other stories you will see that I am a lifestyle submissive - I enjoy all aspects of my life being controlled.



Forumthebeltholes - you have summarised exactly why I love older men...thank you!! :)

Near the end, you say that you want a man who knows when you need to be controlled. How do you like for your man to control you?

You are an amazing person. You know your soul . Very few people can say they know there soul. You should be content with your heart . be happy

Older men are always more comfortable in their own skins. We have lived and understand the turns that the world takes. All the little things in life you survive. the Big things are there to enjoy the wonderfulness of them, whether they are good or bad, they are all there to be wondered and chellenged by. Younger immature men or women just get angry that things aren't going their way. I'm about to break up with with a women today (Before valentines day) becuase she is such a princess that nothing ever goes just the way she wants and so everything ends in disappointment. Me on the other hand, Im just happy to be alive !! Its a great place while it lasts.

I suppose I am in a different situation as I too have been married before and have no real wish to do so again.

I feel the same way you do. but the problem im having is the older guys had been married before and refuse to do so again. for this reason i told myself to date older guys but not as old as i liked originally.

Many young women have told me just the same eg. "Men below 35 are boys, useless for anything serious..." , so being a man -serious, not too young and not looking for silly adventures- I do accept it :-)

You know whats funny is, there isn't one male from 40-50 who wouldn't give his eye & teeth to date a younger lady, think about the fun one could have. yet I can't help and wonder where there was anything there in comon. an 18 year old dating a 40 +? I think there may be one and that too is scetchy. Its called the intellect factor. You have a 18-20 year old who is bright and has her head on her shoulders and you have this guy who is 40 or more with the same level of intellect if hes lucky.

Both thumbs up to those couples with a huge age gap and who make it work and both thumbs up for those who have the right mind to back off.

I had always thought to have relationship with my age group, but some how I always communicate and bond well with girls 10-15 years younger then me. Your postings do help me understand better why its the case.

Thanks.

I agree - but dont think your comments apply just to a D/s relationship. As long as both partners can satisfy each other and both are happy then the age difference is not important.

I dont think you should dismiss someone because they are younger than you...everyone is different. You may in time find that your ideal partner is younger...or you may not - but you should remain open to the possibility.

I have found that young women tend to hit on me.. i have to be careful, as they are not what i need, and I am sure that after some playful flirting.. I am not what they need.

Sounds like you have a good man there so!! ;)

You just described my husband!

As am I Dog...i feel priveleged just being able to call you a friend. xx