Would You Date An Older Man In a Sexless Marraige?

Hi,

Would you date an older man in a sexless marraige?  If not why?

What would be your expectations? 

sexlessincolorado sexlessincolorado
46-50, M
4 Responses Feb 12, 2009

I LOVE OLDER MEN I WOULD NOT DATE ANYONE MY OWN AGE LOVE OLDER MEN

I understand where you're coming from ~ I think. If you really want a women's point of view, I'll offer mine. For me, being with a married man who is living with his wife (and acting "as if" there were a real marriage), would make me feel terrible about myself. In our society, you only get one wife. If you were divorced or separated, it would be different. When I date a man, I want all of him. If he can't give me all of himself, he probably doesn't have a ton of respect for me, himself, or his wife. One more question: Is it okay if your wife "dates"?<br />
Please don't take this offfensively. You asked and I answered. Take it or leave it.<br />
You'll probably find some girl who is willing to have sex (aka: date) a married man, but she might not be all you are looking for in a woman. For me, I have too much self-esteem to date a married man. I wouldn't want that done to me and I won't do it to another woman either!<br />
Sexless or not, it's still a marriage. Get out of it and move on if you want to date quality women. You deserve a chance at happiness and so does your wife.

Why wouldn't date an older married man?

i would date an older man - but definately would not date an older married man - or a younger married man. Regardless of how often he sleeps with his wife he still has a wife!!!