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Daddies Little Girl

ive never had 'father issues' either,some just want a 'father figure' and i want one..lets say...i mean i guess..another one!....lol,i wasnt always into older guys,it used to be 'as long as he's older then me' during that i just seemed to move up the age rank..lol purhaps maybe the time something seemed to 'click' inside me was when i saw the movie 'lolita' im a daddies girl,no issues or anything, just like my childhood,i dont know if that sounds wierd..but i do!..hm..and i know i hated when my parents got divorced...i spent more time with my dad then i did withmy mom when i was little,ont even remeber much at all of my mom really,she had issues,anyways,up untill 4 month ago i was in a relationship with a 50 yr old,i liked im alot,sleeping beside him.staring at his handsome face,like in 'awe' of it,i loved touching it...i loved his wringes..(:.he always tried to hide them tho..lol and made fun of me..anyways..we did alot together.. it lasted three month,ive never felt the way with anyone the way i did with him,still kinda sad but we really had nothing in comman anways, as i found out more so later....ive known other 50 yr olds ive had more in comman with then him..
ElectroMagneticForce ElectroMagneticForce 22-25, F 36 Responses Jan 18, 2010

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i dont knwo why pepole think girls that date older have a father issue i see it very normal

And ada12? You sure as heck don't look young, either. Who would call you little girl? A 100 year old? You look like my moms!

According to your picture, you don't look young at all. Maybe that's why you like "older" men because you know you look older. I have seen women in their forties who look younger than you. I would think you were about 48 by your pic. I think maybe you're lying about your age. I have also seen twenty year old with wrinkles, and forty year olds with smooth faces. It's not about age. It's about sex appeal. Besides, by calling other women "wrinkled old bags" you are only talking about your future self, which is really dumb, giving yourself a shelf life, which is looks like it's about to expire anyway. Get a life. Stop being such a cranky old shallow you know what.

43 Year old here open to anything so add me or message me and we can trade email addresses.

I have enjoyed reading all this. I love to tease older men... I love it when they look at me like a little girl, and want me... Issues? so? I would like to have older men to just cyber with me and that's all is that too much to ask for? lol

I just joined this site and this is my first comment. All I can say is that I agree 100 per cent. I do know many boys that are My age but I have been with an older man, 53 for aover two years and it is the best relationship I have had in such a long long time. he is wonderful, understnads me and takes care of all of my needs.

I just joined this site and this is my first comment. All I can say is that I agree 100 per cent. I do know many boys that are My age but I have been with an older man, 53 for aover two years and it is the best relationship I have had in such a long long time. he is wonderful, understnads me and takes care of all of my needs.

Yeah, but when you see two nerds together, the next thing that happens is they fall in love, have sex and produce another generation of nerds! We've got ot put an end to that cycle, else they'll just keep on inventing **** that us old people can't use. I think of it as protecting my interests...i.e. keeping the world at a slower pace.

Heh, there's restraint and lack of restraint. Has nothing to do with being a sexual person. You've got to embrace that part, rather than compare it to the worst of the behavior. Fooling around all the time with anyone, that's a sex addict. And I'm already recovering from that. Doesn't mean i'm no longer a sexual person. <br />
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And a person who eventually meets their perfect match may not have had many boyfriends either. Didn't need them.

and WHAT is wrong with two nerds?? its cute!! you always see them together..why im talking to a few right now!!..lol i dont mean you guys...lol

well...i cant really call myself a sexul person cuz i see sexual people as fooling around all the time with ANYONE thats what IDE call a 'sexual' person...and i havnt had many boyfreinds

InkyDeux to self: "Uh, Oh, the Evil Eye. Can the pitchforks be far behind?"<br />
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One word about monogamy: you'd better be serious about it. Otherwise, it's a waste of time for you AND him. <br />
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One word aobut "nerds": Nerds are sexy, and not neceesarily to other nerds.<br />
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One word about you: You're actually OK and not confused at all. Be confident in that.<br />
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But you don't consider yourself a sexual person? Not buying it. You are, and you're OK with that.

probably 50..lol it seems to be around there..no i dont really consider myself a sexual person! for once im SERIOUS about monogamy!! (gives InkyDuex the evil eye)

Do you think you are a very sexual person? Do you have fantisies?

How old is the oldest person you have had a relationship with? was the sex good?

huh well he was 48. i have tended to like 4o to 50 and they all kinda have looked the same.cuz i KNOW what i like..long hair glasses ya know...hmmmmm when i?? well i dont want to get into it on here.. i honesly thought it was giong to bleep out my curse word...lol.

Age is only a number. If you have fun and good sex you do not have to worry about age.

How hard can an older guy ****? Heh, you are asking for it, girl! But seriously, we can't do it like we once did. But it's still as big as it ever was. There are a lot of older women that can't take a load of timber too big.<br />
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That's kind of a stupid thing for him to say regardless. Probably just kind of playing a mind game comparing how hard you could take it as compared to anyone else. And if you're done, you're done. He's fortunate that you informed him of that little fact, but he apparently needed to keep you off balance and "submissive" by being made to feel inadequate. Yet, you could still make him ******? Then apparently you could do it good enough, eh?<br />
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Part of the appeal of a younger lover is you MIGHT have a chance to teach them something new. Otherwise, you lose the high ground of age. That's if you're feeling the need to be dominant. Otherwise, one should enjoy the sexual energy of youth, be happy to have it and shut the **** up unless there's an orgasmic outburst.<br />
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When you define your next older lover, you'll have more experience in knowing what traits you want and what traits suck in a partner. As long as you both give each other that thrill, then you're off to a good start regardless of age...and when he makes your eyes roll back in your head, you won't care how old he is. Or you are.<br />
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Just a curious question: when you pleasure yourself, what age is your fantasy? A certain age, all ages or do they just look like Richard?

yeah we were kinky..but like ok get this...first off after a while..when we um "ya know" f course with a condom!..lol he would say that i cant take how rough he could be with me..thatkind hurt my feelings!!..and he said an older woman would beable to. when your having sex..what the hell does being able to take it have to do with being older!. critisizing me on how much i can handle it...screw that...in the back of my mind i was kinda laffing, no offense.but generaly how hard can an older guy ****?...maybe it was just me? i aways told him i just have to relax myself more...but arghhhh!! i mean can you imagine how that made me feel?? and also about pleasuring him too..well i mean when im done with ogasming im done!..ofcourse he always made me 'ya know' and once i did i didnt want to do anything else and he complaned..

wel thank you!! yes i did feel like i was more mature then richard. he didnt really critisize me in mean way...it was kinda jokinly but i let things get to me too much...yes i know ALL about the sailing.and fishing..my dad does thatstuff too!. him and richard were alot alike in a way kinda...lol dad and him got along .yes OFCOURSE there was physical attraction VERY much.emotonal...hmm..im not sure about that.. probably more on my part..the poor man was trying too! i know he was trying VERY hard to see something with me,becuase one minute he would be saying how HAPPY he was with me then next he would email me out of he blue.saying it wasnt working..then next thing u know i persade him to come and pick me up!!. well he told me he would never forget me, and he still emails me from time to time saying he is thinking about me,i respond back but he never says anything

Older and more critical? So it's the old, "Do what I say or I'll criticise you?" Some older men like younger women precisely for that...someone they can boss around because older women just won't put up with that ****! Sounds to me like you're more mature than Richard, then. And that freqently happens. What happens when you mature beyond a older but less mature man? <br />
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But, that's the risk regardless of age, which is what I think you're saying. But it begs the question, what are you more attracted to older men by: the emotional stability or is there a physical attraction? Because I guarantee you it's physical even with us older men. Emotional ties develop if we hang around too long, and being older and more mature, we're off and gone in a flash. That's experience, especially when it comes to younger women. We might just like them too much. <br />
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Older men dont really do that much anymore? HA, HA! Funny girl. Actually we do a lot...just not as quick. Plus, we like going sailing, going to clubs (not meat markets but a nice music scene is good). <br />
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What in common? Lot's of things. Otherwise no relationship will work. Older or younger, you've both got to be physically attracted, emotional attracted, similarly kinky or in a perfect world, all of the above.

BTW was trying to find the words to say it. but i ALWAYS thought ide ave ALOT in comman with someone older,i dont see how his will ever change. think im pretty grown up about my taste in music and all that ther stuff.. i get alng with my dad so i always thought why woudnt i get long with someone ELSE older, richard was TOO different he was too much like his 23 yr old son.i dont really come across that too often but probably the FIRST two weeks of being with him at his place i relized we were just different..but i just thought it would all even out the better we got to knowechother..but he always critisized me.even with what i watched..i found that ridicoulous coming from a 48 yr old man who liked "pop" music,justin timberake and britney spears,we even got our dreadlocks for different reasons.. now ironicly it should be the other way around...lol it was like 'role' reversal little bit..but **** im NEVER gunna like pop music..its a bunch of garbage..its such a fad...

ohhhhh:O haa! yeah i love that..right when you said the daugher thing!! haa! well so what? peoples assumptions..when i was seen with richard i KNEW people were probably thinking that too..ecxiting but i didnt really care..hmmm..mind you if felt soooo odd but yet so wonderfull..wierd huh?it flt like just walking around with my dad...lol t iwant to argue...arghh.): what really do you mean in comman? older guys dont realy do much anymore...lol no offense!... yes i dont mind settling down..thats what most want to do at that age...im ok with that. and thats what i wanted to find because of that...(another of my reasons)do you mean things in coman as still giong out partieyng and acting stupid?? i never did that and never interested in that

Sometimes it works out. I've seen it happen with my friend and his 20 something wife of 5 years. Yes, they are happy. But when we all go out as a couple, everyone thinks she's his daughter. They laugh about it, but when people figure out they are a couple, they start to act a little strange towards them.<br />
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What are you gonna realize when you "grow up"? Maybe that you have less in common than you first thought. That's what growing up is: Being better at defining yourself. If you grow up and realize you have more in common, that's just dandy. Personally, I find young lovers risky because they haven't lived long enough to be as cynical as I am. More for their protection than mine.

ehhh....well ok rebelous tho?? that just argh... i woudnt get rebelous i mean cmon dammit!..i dont care what anyone says...you cant get rebeloius over your boyfriend!..ive hears that before but i dot buy it..maybe some stupid girls just dont have a strong enough bond... umm ok.. say i DO gow up.. what am i gunna relize??? even if i DID grow up i think ide love you more..it shouldnt matter who grows up or does what in thier life.as long as its together.. i see nothing else..when i was with richard..mind you the age gap was a turn on but...when we did things together.cuddle while watching a movie.. etc..i did not see a dfference,i just saw him as i would any other man.as if the age difference wasnt there.

The problem with an older man and his much younger lover is that everyone you meet suspects you two are doing naughty things. Might add to the excitement, though. <br />
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I lived with a younger lover for a couple of years. It was fun, but eventually they still get rebellious and "grow up". Even if you spank 'em. But remember, with that Catholic school girl outfit, undies are optional.

i will think of buying a schoolgirls outfit....lol i always had the notion older men would LIKE to take care of someone younger, ke their duaghter,if i may say!!...i dont know how i got this in my head...but i remember thinking this when i first relized i liked older guys...

lol not exactually what ide thought it woyd be like...the way i had it in my head,it would kinda be like that movie 'lolita' minus the ending results..bleh....when i was with richard it was just like living with my dad(: umm...not in every way! lol i liked it like that...it as nice!! ive never felt like this in 10 yrs!! its not about roleplaying...hmm maybe it is i dont know..i kinda want to make th fantasies real..in a way it was!! wouldnt u say its real?? being with an older man and callng them daddy...amongsth other things i dont wan to go intoo detail here..lol hmmm...but in a way ide like the fantasies to real..and why not?? i always thought an older man would LOVE to take care of a younger girl..it sounds beautifull to me,the way it plays in my head(: almost natural.

You don't want to grow up and like older men? I can see where your "fantasy role playing" is going to lead you. Better buy that Catholic School Girl dress now and avoid the rush.

this was one thing i left out...maturity..lol im not selfish or anything..but i lack maturity that ALOT Of girls my age have...wether it be from being on thier own or whatever..ive NEVER been on my own yet,and terribe at budgetting, i dont even do the dishes or clean around the house..this was AN issiue with him.altho he was teaching me rensoniblitly. he wanted to see i was diong this at home too.. and i wasnt..but i DID clean at his place mind you..but well this was all an issue ith him..and i just coudnt see a future with me.itwuld probably take alot of pateince the guys part in regards to me...*sigh* so many things..even in the beggiing he always said wished i was 30, now that was hurtfull..cuz i cant change my age for him..and i always said tohm if was 30 ide STILL probably hve matirty issiues..lol is its AWFULL. it was always the notion oler men like younger girls cuz their inocence youthfullness and they havnt experainced the world yet...well this is kinda bull crap....i havnt experance any of these thing yet either..its only like "initaily these are atrractive to older men.but once the novelty wears off like i would lose my "innocence". i cant retendto be a child and be mature at the same time): lol this is what richard said to me and..well other older men.it kinda hurt my feelings):...."your just a child,now leave us adult alone"!! iv had that said to me in a negiive way i beleive knowone wants to take care of a child...lol well but i fricekn say im a daddies gil what do you exept then??....this is just not my way.... i dont want to become a "woman" i hate it i hate growing up...i dont want this.