I Love My Older Boyfriend

I 18 years old and my boyfriend is 30 years old. I find that due to he's older He's more respectful to me, more supportive of me, encourages me to keep to my goals, and full feels my sexual needs better the the guys my own age does.

kasandra18 kasandra18
18-21, F
5 Responses Mar 10, 2010

My boyfriend is 14 years older than me. I am 23 and he just turned 38. He is the most patient person I've ever met and does have a lot more respect for me. He doesn't pressure or force me to have sex and treats my daughter well. I have been living on my own since 18 and have been through a ton in life and feel that we have almost the same amount of life experiances. I can't relate to someone my age who doesn't have enough life experiances. Plus he looks 30 and not 38 so that's a plus and he is very attractive like myself! :) I love him dearly.

Good for you Kassandra! <br />
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Yes I'm biased, but I do feel that we older guys tend to encourage our girl to pursue her dreams and goals. We'll even help when it's needed.

To Babyboo89<br />
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I am sorry to hear about your boyfriend! Though I don't mean to sound harsh or unsympathetic. But, the reaper doesn't care about age. Be it an auto accident, motorcycle, boating, sporting accident or whatever, including a health issue. It can happen at 19 or 90. When it's your time, it's your time!<br />
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Lets say you both were the same age, and whatever is taking him still happened. You'd still have the same amount of life to live without him, and still feel the same heart ache. <br />
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His age has nothing to do with it.....

I understand wat you mean i was 16 and had a 33 year old boyfriend but be in for heart brake the age difference really does matter only because you have alot more life to live than he does i am now 18 and he is dieing in the hospital right now with only a few days to live.

So at 52 I'm not out of the running yet? LOL.. you're a sweetie! Bill in Va.