I Ain't Got No Crystal Ball
Lets make it SIMPLE
You Missing her/him? CALL
You want to see someone ? INVITE
You want to be understood:? EXPLAIN YOURSELF
You have doubts?: ASK
You Don't like it:? TALK
You liked it? TALK MORE
Do you need something? ASK this is a good start to get what you are looking for. If you do not get it, you already have the "NO" and you only risk will be getting a "YES"
Like Michael Landon said:
Somebody should tell us, right at the start of our lives, that we are dying. Then we might live life to the limit, every minute of every day. Do it! I say. Whatever you want to do, do it now! There are only so many tomorrows.