Self Examination

I like when people are humble enough to look at their actions and try to understand WHY they do them. Once they understand the reasons why, then they have better control over all the things they do.

When you understand that you do something because of your need to be appreciated or you do something because you grew up around people who did that or you do something because it is habit or you do something because someone taught you to when you were a kid, then you can appreciate how your actions influence your relationships. You can understand what they may or may not understand whereas before you never examined it and just took it all for granted. You can better understand why other people do the things they do too or why they are different from you, instead of just coming up with wild guesses and assumptions and prematurely labeling them and summing them up because you couldnt take the time to understand why people do the things they do, starting with yourself.
shannonymous shannonymous
18-21, F
3 Responses Jan 8, 2013

I am who I am and you are who you are. Lets stop trying to figure it all out and just enjoy being you.

Totally agree just be yourself and don't analyse.

I do that! Exactly!

Can you tell me why I do the things I do?

lol...some things.

But I want to know everything! :)


Why is that funny?

because that is what *I* say

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