After many (many) encounters with all types of men, I found that I am happiest with men of a submissive nature. The one problem that this presents is that most submissives are not aggressive in the sexual arena. Fortunately - I am so I can put that rather annoying trait in my strategy (notice I do not say games, or scenes) and use this to my, and my submissive's, advantage.
Since I am also creative, it is fun to see what particular buttons need to be pushed so that I get mine. Of course, since I practice Loving Dominance, the sub gets what they crave.......total dominance and eventually....release.