Being DumpIn my dating life I experienced many ignores, rejections and breakups but as for being dump I went through it for just one time and it hurt.
The heartbreaks of being dumped hurts like nothing else in the world of losing love.! Because it eats at your self respect, self esteem and integrity. When someone dumps you without a reason they say so much in degrade and disrespect for you not just as a girl/boy, man/woman but also as a person in all of its meaning.
I started to doubt about myself, my image, my appearance and my social skills...What did I do wrong? I wondered. Why only after one wonderfully sweet day he never saw me again? There was no signal whatsoever. Only some unreasonable silence. And I thought I was excellent at reading signs.!
Then later on he realized how painful wrong action was and called me to console me but the damage was done. I rather he told me that we weren't right for each other than put up the show, went through with all the acts, then dropped it just like that.
Through this experience I feel used, dumb and inhumane. Feel like a fool
xuan1218 36-40, F 13 Responses 2 Apr 6, 2011