My Husband Spanks Me Regularly
My husband recently decided (within the past few months) that I was not responding to him appropriately, ie., spending too much money shopping, sneaking cigarettes and lying to him about it, making smart comments to him, so he sat me down one day to talk. At first I thought he was just playing with me, but when he leveled his eyes at me I realized he was serious. We've been married for seven years and have never really had any problems that we haven't been able to work out, but apparently he felt as though he needed to take more control. He told me that there were some rules he expected me to follow - stop lying, don't spend money without discussing it first, things like that. I still thought he wasn't actually serious, but then he told me that if I didn't obey the rules he was going to discipline me. I didn't believe him but then he stood up, went into the other room and brought back a wooden paddle I hadn't ever seen before. He told me that he was going to give me a taste of what I could expect when he disciplined me and before I knew it he had put me over the edge of the couch with my sundress up and my panties down around my knees. He used his hand for the first few whacks and then starting using the paddle. It hurt so much I had tears in my eyes. He continued on for a little bit and then he stopped. He told me to stand up and fix my dress so I did and then he sat me down and said the reason he had done that was because he loved me. He told me that once a week he was going to spank me to keep me in line. He also warned me that he intended to follow through if I tested him, and that the next time he wouldn't be so gentle. I tested him on the next day by going shopping and found myself bent over the couch again wishing I hadn't. For me, it's become a valuable part of my marriage, because I respect him so much more for taking control and following through. He spanks me once a week, and if I break any rules it's more and usually a lot harder. He is always fair about it and never spanks me without a good reason. I love him now more than I ever have and it has taught me to honor him and love him in ways I never imagined. It's really made me a better, more focused person and wife.