I Do It Without Realizing It

I don't know at what age I developed a fondness for flirting but it surprises me when friends ask me why I flirt so often with guys I just met. This is going to sound odd but I don't consciously flirt with the opposite sex. Most of the time, I'm just more friendly than usual but that's because I like enjoy being in the presence of guys in general. I guess you could say I smile more often, giggle like a little girl, and give them a soft punch in the arm if they're teasing me. According to my best friend I also blush frequently, bat my eyelashes incessantly, and play with my hair more around guys. I don't even notice or realize it until they walk away. What's disappointing is that if I happen to like a guy for real, I'd be as dumb as a rock around him. I wouldn't say anything or even make eye contact with him for fear of saying something embarrassing.
yujinxiang317 yujinxiang317
22-25, F
2 Responses Mar 2, 2012

Some people do flirt naturally. I do too

I didn't know anyone else was like this.. I'm a 17 year old guy, and I'm called a flirt all of the time, and I never actually mean to be! Whenever I have a girlfriend, they always get annoyed with me, because they think I'm flirting with other girls, but I'm just really friendly! I don't mean to be, or even notice it. All of my friends, girlfriend(s)(that's past and present, not a cheater! haha), family, everyone ALL say I'm a flirt when I really don't try to be! It's just something I naturally do, I suppose! Really glad I know I'm not the only one now haha

Well, I only act really flirtatious when I'm single. If attached, I tend to be more platonic with guys in general. You sound like you are a ladies' man...i hope your gf is not the jealous type.

I flirt with girls all the time, single or not supposedly.. I don't even notice it! That's always a good way to be though, you don't make any guys jealous. I've been called that multiple times... haha but she can be sadly.. lol