I'm a girl. Therefore, it is in my nature to flirt with guys. Sometimes, I don't know that I do, and other times, I flirt like there is no tomorrow!

Then why hasn't it gotten me a boyfriend?

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1 Response Mar 17, 2009

An ideal boyfriend is someone you have a lot in common with, someone who wants to spend time with you because you're interesting and fun to be with, someone who enjoys talking to you, as well as someone who enjoys listening to you. Flirting isn't necessarily the best way to find a boyfriend. Communication and socializing are better ways. If you go home with guys you meet in bars, you shouldn't be overly surprised if you never hear from them again. In other words, they weren't looking for a girlfriend. Flirting can be fun but it can seriously get in the way of starting a relationship.