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I Can't Do The Impossible!

Ok so let me start by telling you some history, I have this friend, he has been my best friend for 11 years and he is Indian and kinda chubby and I have helped a lot of people with their relationships and getting girlfriends and boyfriends and so on. So he thinks I can help him with this one girl and he has complete faith in me getting this girl for him, but I accidentally in the process of trying to help him and talk him up to this girl she started liking me instead :( So I definitely don't want her I am not that sort of guy I mean she is nice, smart and funny but I couldn't do that ever. So now she likes me and he thinks that I can get her to like him when she just wants to be friends and he just doesn't understand, she has let him down easily and I have tried to be really nice about it but he wont give up. She thinks she is out of his league and to be fair to her he is very immature and naive but still! I can't believe this is happening! he is my best friend and I cannot just tell him I have tried but he doesn't understand and he is now thinking of asking her out when I know she doesn't like him, and that will devastate him. I just want everyone to be happy but I can't seem to find a solution and when I asked him "Maybe she doesn't like you, Could you just stay friends?" he replied "I've got to make her interested" and when I asked him "How are you going to do that?" he said "That's where you come in!". I simply don't know how to figure it out should I just tell him to move on again for the thousandth time I know this isn't a big problem or anything just if someone thinks they have the answer I would appreciate it a lot, there is no chance for him and the weird thing is he is arrogant and thinks he is attractive when that's definitely not the right attitude to get any girl and I can't help but think that I am a bad friend and none of it's even my fault lol just because I have helped others get relationships doesn't mean I can help everyone I just wish there was some way to tell him that going for a genuine girl is a better idea instead of a 'popular hot girl' but boys will be boys!
bj7390 bj7390 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 26, 2012

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No one has the answer to this problem, so dont reinforce the idea, as your story points out that your a mircale worker! No one is, annd it should not be expected of other people, most deffs. including yourself.



Your right, well imho he doesnt have the right attitude for the type of girl he is after. Especially if the one hes crushing on isnt interested in him.



Instead maybe try and settle him on the basis that between him and this girl, that she wants to be friends. Most sucsessfull relatiobships start out in a frienship fashion, and this could lead to somthing bigger. But alas, we cannot predict the future. And who would want to spoil it anyway? :)



As for her liking you, well! What can I say? your a charming fellow to begin with, and go with your instincts.



Take care xxoo

Yeah I did I mean I tried to but he just wont listen and yeah he is cocky but he can't back it up lol He just needs to learn how it works I suppose :) Thank you means a lot :)

Yeah lol. That's alright :)

Maybe just let him know, politely? He sounds cocky, and the world just doesn't work that way. Your a great friend for staying loyal to him.