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Boy Flower Girl At Wedding

Many years past when I was in college, I attended a friend's wedding. The bride's nephew and neice, a pair of twins (a boy and a girl) about 11 years old, participated as the ring bearer (the boy) and as flower girl (the girl). They were each appropriately dressed, the girl in a very pretty pink satin and lace frock with a full skirt and petticoats and the boy in a little cream-colored suit styled like a tuxedo. At the reception there was a big commotion when the twins appeared in one another's outfits -- the boy in the dress and the girl in the boy's suit. Their mother, the bride's sister and matron of honor, and one of the bridesmaids had switched them. The girl had her makeup and nail polish removed and her hair slicked down, and the boy's face was all made-up with his nails done and he had a wig of curls styled and tied with ribbons. They were fraternal twins, not identical, but they were the same size and wore each other's clothes beautifully. It was quite intriguing to me to see a younger boy looking so feminine and apparently enjoying himself and all the attention he received. The bride danced with the girl and the boy danced with the groom and everyone applauded. They both spent the rest of the time at the reception dressed that way. As a avid crossdresser myself (I started at a very young age), I found it exciting to see this boy dressed and conducting himself like a girl. The bride's mother was telling everyone that he and his sister had always enjoyed playing "dress-up" games as children and had often switched clothes so this was not something new. She said that her daughter was something of a "Tom Boy" while her son had some "sissy" traits.  I remember one of the other relatives objecting and saying to the mother, "Aren't they too old now to be doing such things?" The mother replied that she agreed that the twins were getting too old to play such games, and would soon be teenagers. But, she said, her son had begged to get a chance to wear his sister's flower girl outfit and she had said no at first, but then gave in. I thought he might be too embarrassed to go through with it, she said. He didn't look at all embarrassed and managed his pretty dress and skirts very well. I've often wondered whether this boy grew up to be a crossdresser. 

Sissylips Sissylips 66-70 21 Responses Aug 15, 2009

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That's nice! Thank you for sharing! :)

I have 3 cousins,ages 7,9 and14 who are all making their First holy communions the end of april and all three are going to wear a poofy communion dress with the veil,gloves,lace anklets and white shoes.The 7 and 9 year olds are going to wear a size 7 pampers diaper with the Dappi xxl size plastic pants over it and the 14 year old is going to wear a cloth diaper with adult size small plastic pants over it under their dresses.they told me the diaper and plastic pants is what is normally worn under the communion dresses at their parishes.

I dont believe that actually happened.

I think making boys into flower girls is demeaning and degrading for the boys unless they really want to be a girl.I feel only girls should be flower girls and be cute and little girlish.as i said in my previous post,my friends 13 year old little sister was a toddler flower girl and she looked so cute and adorable in her outfit.I think older girls should be flower girls and dressed up cute.i think bridal stores should sell cloth diapers and cute plastic pants especially for flower girls to wear under their dresses to make them feel cute.A friend of mine showed me photos of her as a flower girl when she was 11 years ago and she had a diaper and toddler plastic pants under her dress.she told me her neice wanted her to wear them and her mom put them on her and she wore them the whole time.she told me they made her feel little girlish.

My friends little sister who is 13 was a toddler flower girl in her aunts wedding back in september.i helped my friend and her mom dress the girl.we pinned a white cloth diaper on her them put a pair of cute baby print plastic pants on over it then her under shirt.next came her white,poofy,mid thigh length dress,with a flowered headwreath with a veil attached,then white lace socks and white mary janes.we rosied up her cheeks and then her mom attached a pacifier to the front of her dress that she sucked on during the ceremony.she looked very cute and toddler like.when she would bend over slightly,her diaper and plastic pants could be seen.she was a hit with the women and girls at the wedding.

That is a great story, thank you for sharing, it is great to hear that they were not told not to do it, but were allowed to do it. That is great!!

Girls, i have to tell that all your stories are great! <br />
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I my self have known two boys who had this oportunity of being the girl at a wedding. <br />
One was aged 11-12. He was a flowergirl. The other was 15 and was a bridesmaid. No, not at the same wedding :). <br />
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The flowergirl, it was in 1993, was a son of the brides friend. I newer found out how they brought him to be the girl at the wedding. I know it was a boy, because by chance i saw her in the park pee standing with the skirts up, held by his mother!<br />
She had a very sweet dress on - tea lenght, satin and organza overlay, with multiple la<x>yer underskirt.Then puffy sleeves with little bows. A red sash at the waist. <br />
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The other one, 15ys, was a friend to the bride.it must be around 2000. He was gay nd crossdressing. He was asked to be the bridesmaid. He got a whole makeoverwith hair extensions, nails and makeup. He stayed a girl during four weeks in all - few days before wedding and then for vacation. <br />
He wore a 50's style white off shoulder satin dress with red trimmings. It was ankle long, with full petticoat. Maching red heels, red gloves, earings and nacklace. As for undies - he showed off his stay up laced stockings and seetrhough panties. <br />
He was also sexually active with two boys/men from the wedding. But no details here ;)

this is a response to lorima's comment about going to a wedding and seeing a boy dressed as a bridesmade and undressing him to see his genitals through his panties. <br />
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whats with you sick ***** and wanting to see a little boy dressed as a girl so you can see his panties. you need help. i mean its one thing to dress a boy as a girl. but to expose him in his underwear. ****** pedofiles. im sure this is a made up story. but if it isnt you should be in prison. ******* DISGUSTING have you no boundaries and sense of right and wrong? Its people like you that make crossdressers look bad and if i knew you i would have nothing to do with you. no wonder every one thinks that crossdressers are perverts sick.

I have been to a few weddings and have never seen a boy dressed as a flower girl.I have tho seen older flower girls in the 10 to 14 year old range who were dressed as toddler flower girls and they looked very cute and adorable.i saw these girls in three weddings in the past two years.all of the girls were dressed in puffy,above the knees white dresses and wore veils with lace socks and patent leather shoes.all of the girls had a cloth diaper and plastic pants on under their dresses as their toddler under wear.the oldest flower girl [age 14] looked the cutest of all the previous girls and her dress was mid thigh length and her diaper and plastic could barely be seen sticking out from under the dress.she even had a pacifier attached to the front of her dress.i love seeing older girls dressed up cute as little girls or toddlers.

I have never ever been to a gay bar though I'd really love it. I went to a gay pub once but was toengrossed in two girls making out. God I got horny, and if any man had made a move I think it would of been my first real gay experience. But it never happened :-(

wonderful to have a sister or a brother who looks like you and you can change rolls. To be a girl for a while then to be a boy. Incredible fantasies which i do envy.incredible ti have such a mother.

I attended a wedding last year where the flower girl was a 10 yr ld boy. I did not know she was a boy until my friend told me at the reception. Her cousin told her that her younger brother had gone out on holloween as a princess and she got the flower girl idea after seeing him dressed. His hair, makeup and nails were well done and he played the part extremely well. She even danced with several boys. The only real commotion at the wedding was the number of pictures taked with him dressed alone.<br />
So many women wanted a picture of this pretty flower girl.

It would be an intersting experience to be a boy-girl twin, and grow up with a gender opposite your exact age and size. The temptation to "switch" and satisfy curiosity would absolutely be present. I could understand the boy at an early age being jealous, particularly on special occasions when his twin sister is put in pretty, frilly dresses and fussed over, and getting special attention from mother.

going to a gay bar dressed as a sissy can be so much fun

i think being dressed as a toddler flower girl would be fun as well. recently went to gay bar in my sissy sailor dress. got lots of compliments

I had the good fortune later in life to be a sissy flower girl. I had had a pretty yellow little girls dress made for me. A friend took me to a gay club in it. Surprisingly to me, I quickly became the ob<x>ject of attenion. We did not know it but a gay couple were having a wedding ceremony. And although they did not know us .asked me to be flower girl. As the outfit was like a 7 year olds,with frilly socks,petticoats,maryjanes and rhumba panties. We accepted. And Later went out to the reception. It was such fun.

Why limit the boys to being only to wear dresses and skirts at such formal occasions. Clothing does no more then cover our nakedness. Dresses and skirts, just like pants and shirts are inanimate items, the cloth has no ability to determine if its a boy or girl wearing them. I have a couple of friends that let their boys wear dresses or skirts. They still act like any other boy, running jumping, riding their bikes, so why aren't they allowed. Just because some nameless society declared it.

to me this is a sissies dream come true to be a flower girl, brides maid or a bride. dressed all in frills and lace

That boy bridesmaid sounds delicious! I want to kidnap him in his lingerie, and keep him as a pretty slave and companion.

I went a wedding too, but the difference was that one of the bridemaids was a boy, he was the cousin of the bride and he have 13 yeras old, all the people knew about it because he was recogniced for 2 girls, and they expand the notice to all the people, he was beautiful, in a short purple dress with black stockings and heels, wig, earrings, full makeup etc. then in the dance and games in the party, the other bridemaids forced to take off the dress of the boy, and we can see his lingerie, he has put a black corset with garters, lace black panties, black seamed stockings hooked in the garters, open toe high heels, and black bra with breast forms, his figure was very femenine, and all the girls in the party included me, then we did a very close examination of his undies, for to see his p.. and testicles in the sides of the lace of his panties, it was wonderfull, and brides maids do a very great job with him. I like to see boys dressed like girls.

I went a wedding too, but the difference was that one of the bridemaids was a boy, he was the cousin of the bride and he have 13 yeras old, all the people knew about it because he was recogniced for 2 girls, and they expand the notice to all the people, he was beautiful, in a short purple dress with black stockings and heels, wig, earrings, full makeup etc. then in the dance and games in the party, the other bridemaids forced to take off the dress of the boy, and we can see his lingerie, he has put a black corset with garters, lace black panties, black seamed stockings hooked in the garters, open toe high heels, and black bra with breast forms, his figure was very femenine, and all the girls in the party included me, then we did a very close examination of his undies, for to see his p.. and testicles in the sides of the lace of his panties, it was wonderfull, and brides maids do a very great job with him. I like to see boys dressed like girls.