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I Like To Swim In My Clothes

"i Don't Like To Feel Exposed While Swimming!"

By: snowberry75
Written on May 24th, 2011
Age: 36-40 , Female
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8 responses
  • consa

    My wife and daughters never wear bikinis and never will. My precocious 10 year old sneers at teens in bikinis as engaging in "mating display".

    When my daughters want to be daring, they say something risque. When my wife wants to be daring, she schedules some time alone with me in the bedroom. They are not interested in letting strangers view their bits.

    Jun 3, 2012
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  • sierra33

    Aww snow...I'm so sorry... :( I have lost my bikini top in strong waves in the ocean and even had a few fellows untie me in pools and it slipped away but I was a stubborn lil monster and just folded my arms over my boobs and marched over to a towel. Plus I wasn't built all that big... so I don't think folks paid as much attention. You're AWESOME in helping your girls pick out suits that stay in place tho!!

    May 19, 2012
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  • AlmostAristotle

    I think I can undersstand how horrible the experience you describe was for you. At least as well as any man can.

    It obviously left you with a lasting social fear.

    I think it's slightly sad that you couldn't find security in a full swimsuit as you describe for your daughters, but if it takes a shirt to make you feel comfortable then so be it.

    At least the traumatic experience didn't stop yoou from going in the water.

    May 19, 2012
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  • VoyeurPeepingTom

    There are times a person may want to expose themself - in the right place with the right people. But feeling exposed when you don't want expose yourself - - - this is indeed another matter. There are folks around here who are very open in some ways, and very discreet in other ways...

    Jan 9, 2012
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    • snowberry75

      I agree, thanks for commenting.

      Jan 9, 2012
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  • WetinKS

    I find it kind of a sad story, that fashion demands bikinis, which only cause so many women so many problems. I'm glad you feel comfortable in your own skin, though maybe a therapist could argue that your need for a t-shirt is a hint you're not.

    But I also wish we could relax our silly ideas about what swimwear should be. Oncology is helping, but it's slow. And be glad you don't live in Europe, where signs at pools demand that MEN wear small swimwear, so you can bet a t-shirt would make a lifeguard blow a fuse...

    So I swim outside, where I can wear everything and only get a few chuckles. : D

    May 29, 2011
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  • snowberry75

    LMAO Im sorry but that is such a typical man thing to say. (shaking my head) Aye aye aye MEN LMAO

    I can be comfortable in my own skin without flaunting it silly.

    May 24, 2011
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  • rhett1946

    thats such a shame snowberry, you obviously have very nice breasts. you are denying yourself of being free and letting presumptions rule how you look at yourself and how others look at you. besides you are denying guys like me to see them.lol Have a good day and i do hope one day soon you can be comfortable as a sexy woman, along with all of your other attributes

    May 24, 2011
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