I Like To Watch My Girlfriend Eat

I like to watch my girlfriend eat.   A lot.  I don't like watching people eat in general at all.  I find it gross.  Like the Carls Jr. commercial that shows people
close up and chowing down on a burger all sloppy.  I hate it.  Even the ones with the pretty gals.  I hate looking at them too.  So why do I like to watch my girlfriend eat?  I'm not sure.  She's pretty, and I like to study her face all the way to the pores and the light facial hairs, every square inch of her face.  I imagine myself carressing her face with my face and I study every inch of her.  It annoys her and makes her self conscious.  I have to be careful not to stare or annoy her too much.
She'll say; "why are you staring at me".  And I'll say "'cause you're real pretty!"  So she'll say "what if I stare at you?!!!"  But she can't stare for very long, 'cause she's no good at it.  I admit I feel self conscious when someone stares at me, so I try to be descreet, but I can't help it.

The other day, I was watching her eat and I was really enjoying it.  I even told her so.  Of course she was annoyed and told me I was wierd and maybe I am.  As I was watching her eat and enjoying it so much, I told myslef 'I'll write this up on experience project!'
My last girlfriend I liked looking at her and watching her eat too.  Of course she would also get annoyed. 

What's wrong with me?  I really, really like looking at my girlfriend and watching her eat.  It's one of the simple pleasures.  Just watching her and looking at how pretty she is gives me pleasure for when she's not in the mood to kiss or make out.

Is there anybody else out there with this problem?  I can't be the only one can I?   Maybe if there are others out there we can do group therapy.
JorgeV JorgeV
51-55, M
4 Responses Aug 11, 2010

This speaks to me, especially since I'm reading this 5 years later. I have this exact same problem with my girlfriend. It's not just that I enjoy, I'm attracted to it. I love knowing she's eating. Then just staring at her and watching her, it's the best feeling in the world. I'm assuming it's a fetish?

Most men like to watch women. We're visual creatures. So 'staring' at a women you find attractive is a normal urge. As for watching her eat, how far does it go? Eg, is it just watching her jaw move, or do you like it when she eats *a lot*? Are you attracted to chubbier women? I am, and watching a plump girl eat is a huge turn on, but it's related to that orientation.

My last girlfriend had her belly to her knees when sitting, stuffing herself. I loved it, it was amazing

hmmm this is a very intresting attraction, i have a somewhat similar problem, i like to stare at womens feet, not all women feet i stare at but there are some that just for some reason attracts me, but of course staring at a womans feet can be annoying as well.<br />
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maybe its her cheeks contracting and expanding is what attracts you or may like to see her in a calm state, this is far-fetched but is she chubby or curvy by any chance?

I knew I couldn't be the only one, I absolutely love watching my wife eat and yes she's a lil curvy.