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Well Endowed Men And My Gf

Hello,

I'm 6ft 5 but probably less than average, 'size' wise to be honest. You know what it's like in showers and that, when you're kind of hiding yourself accidently on purpose while sneaking a peek at the confident guys :-). The older I get the more aware of it I am. When I was a teen/early 20's, it was always women in their forties (at least) that I enjoyed the company of and I think, looking back, I didn't worry about the size thing because I was much younger and felt that my age wa my main attribute. I suppose I substituted inches for stamina and repeat performance etc....

Anyway, I have been in a relationship for 9 years with my g/f and still have a very busy sex life but recently the conversation came round to adult films etc. Long story short, we watched one. To be honest, it was probably the biggest turn on I've ever experienced. When the guy's trousers came down, he was still soft but large. My g/f at that point said he's big isn't he? But it was kind of excited/nervous sort of thing. When she said that, the it was like a bucket of cold water thrown over me or something? Like super real experience. My heart was racing in my chest but it was magic. Obviously things progressed from there movie wise and hard size came into play which basically took her breath away. I don't know why guys like seeing therir partners with large men. Is it a guilt thing coz they don't have the size? Is it a gay thing coz they WANT the size? I've asked myself these questions so I'm not trying to be offensive. Why is it a turn on? We took it a step further but not full sex. We were at a private birthday party in a house and they got a ********. We were all very drunk at this stage and he did his thing. He was jumping about with the spray cream stuff and getting women to lick it off etc. He was a very well endowed guy. To be honest, bigger soft than I am hard and was enjoying it. My g/f played with him in her hand for a long time and even put him in her mouth and I couldn't believe how exciting this all was. The thing that kept me in check I think is that the majority of people there have been in this situation before and it's a laugh whereas my g/f seemed to want to go the whole way? I wouldn't have minded but I'm still asking myself why this is such a turn on? I know if a ******** (still in underwear) sat on my lap, my g/f would be furious, night would be over and silent treatment would ensue for 2 days because she loves me and because I didn't react the same way (even tho she wants to repeat her night) I obviously don't??

This probably reads quite bizarrely but I'm as excited/turned on/confused/and guilty in equal measures and could do with some feedback. I have no problem with what happened at all and would love to see it again.

Joe
honestjoe73 honestjoe73 31-35, M 11 Responses Aug 24, 2010

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I love seeing my wife get ****** by a bigger **** especially if he's ******* her good I mean what good would it be if he was so so there wouldbe no excitement

The most prevalent (and most popular) **** doesn't involve "making love," but the man's power over the girl; animalistic sex, making the girl take a big **** in all of her holes, the man making her take it. Most men get off on seeing how much a woman can take: a huge **** stretching her **** and/ or her ***, ***** in 2 or 3 of her holes, at once, 2 ***** in one hole. And, when he's ready to shoot his load, she gets in right in the face.

I don't mean to sound like the resident anthropologist, but another thing to consider regarding penis size is this. The largest primates (gorillas), have relatively tiny penis size. Other primates like chimpanzees have larger penis size. The gorillas are relatively more monogamous compared to chimps who are promiscuous. Studies of the ratio of index finger to ring finger show that chimps were likely to have had higher levels of androgen in the womb, which actually causes them to be more aggressive and promiscuous. Check your own fingers. A longer ring finger than your index finger means you were exposed to higher androgen before birth. <br />
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Female primates are more attracted by displays of confidence and certain dominance behaviors and not by penis size, which seems to be meaningless as a distinguishing factor. However, greater exposure to androgen in the womb (and possibly greater penis size as a result) normally means more aggressive behavior, so maybe that's what women are attracted to.

In the animal world, it's very common for the dominant or alpha male to be the one that gets to mate with the females. Often this involves the alpha driving-off the other males, but in primate cultures the other males remain but must endure the alpha mating with "their" female whenever the alpha wants. In fact, the act is performed in front of the other male as a show of dominance. Sometimes the female is just dominated and must submit, but at other times she is a willing participant and almost taunts her regular mate. <br />
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Penis size is a surrogate for dominance, and human males often get aroused seeing a dominant big **** male taking a female. This arousal stimulates other males to challenge the dominant alpha for the right to mate with females. <br />
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So, being excited either thinking about or watching your beloved female ******* a dominant, large-**** male is a normal arousal mechanism.

I know what your talking about im less than average and im 6 ft 2 and it always bothered me cause I notice I was small compared to alot of guys so it kept me from from dating and feeling like a MAN but eventually I got married and would never think about someone else doing my wife but after 15 years of marriage I started getting really turn on thinking about my wife having her ***** pounded by a huge **** and I can't stop thinking about it I even watch **** and imagine her riding the guys huge **** stretching her ***** so I think its just we know we can't do that so we like to watch are wife have something we can't give her like a guilt I guess but I let my wife do a buddy of mine that has a big **** and she loved it and I loved watching it so I would say for guys like us it's normal for us to want to watch are wifes gettig **** by a huge ****

I know what your talking about im less than average and im 6 ft 2 and it always bothered me cause I notice I was small compared to alot of guys so it kept me from from dating and feeling like a MAN but eventually I got married and would never think about someone else doing my wife but after 15 years of marriage I started getting really turn on thinking about my wife having her ***** pounded by a huge **** and I can't stop thinking about it I even watch **** and imagine her riding the guys huge **** stretching her ***** so I think its just we know we can't do that so we like to watch are wife have something we can't give her like a guilt I guess but I let my wife do a buddy of mine that has a big **** and she loved it and I loved watching it so I would say for guys like us it's normal for us to want to watch are wifes gettig **** by a huge ****

Humans are the product of evolution. For thousands of years, an "alpha" male would take females in the group and have sex with them in front of the group. This was actually a way for the alpha male to reinforce his dominance over the other males and females. The lesser males were excited watching this and wishing they were the alpha. That behavior still exists in many ape hierarchies or sociaties. The excitement would encourage other males to want to exert their dominance, so the "best" offspring were produced. <br />
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There's nothing abnormal about having these feelings. It's only more recent societal norms that make us feel guilty or invoke other emotions. There's also the threat that a female will "run off" with another male who is better at satisfying her desires. <br />
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When I hear my wife of many years respond to my questions about a past lover, it excites me tremendously. The thought of her reaching climax with that other man both makes me feel jealous and aroused.

ok ... i dont agree.. i dont like seeing my woman with another man .. unless we decided to depart.. that is ok then .. simply cause am a MAN .. i know that there is larger and smaller ( than mine ) penises out there.. but that is not the whole story ..why compare in the 1st place? in other words, if my woman thinks that she deserves to be with someone like ROCCO or Peter North ( famous **** stars) fine with me .. she should go ahead with it .. and i will choose a **** star too with a perfect body; better than hers.. but it is not about that .. it is not about size ..nor just sex..it is about MAKING LOVE .. why is it we want all women to be ******? why is it all come down to size?

I will wade into deep water because of something that happened a day or 2 ago. First i am 5'3'' and as much as I would like to greatly endowed I would look kind of funny.I am 73 years old married 32 years to a wonderful friend. We started playing with this about a year ago mostly because of me. I had some reasons for doing it because she is 53 and I have spent the last 7 years in the middle east. She is a very sexual person, and if anything happened to me I did not want her having to go to a bar to find sex. One of the things I wanted was for to get a big **** because from what I have read I wanted her to have all the pleasure she could get out of it. She has allways been very careful not to make me self consious of my 5 1/2 in. ****. So when someone looked at our pics, some one commented it was to bad she did not have a good sized piece of meat to suck on or something like that. She got very mad and wanted to delete the comment and I told her no, it did not bother me because at the end of the day she is still my best friend and the best lover I could hope for.I am still looking for someone in the 8 in range in the Dallas area for her. We love the few 3some we have had and it has made a different person out of her. But at the end of the day after we get home we still make love to each for 3 or 4 more hours. I love my hot house wife or **** or my best friend what ever you want to call her. ed

CBB's right on target there. You'll find lots of folks here on EP with similar interests, which ultimately begs the question, "Who decides what's normal?"

" I don't know why guys like seeing therir partners with large men. Is it a guilt thing coz they don't have the size? Is it a gay thing coz they WANT the size?".....<br />
because men love women who are insatiable *****, ******, freaks (feel free to insert your own adjective here) in bed. Isn't is great to see your wife/gf as that hot **** star sucking a huge ****? I believe men are turned on by this because we are such visual creatures and really react to visual stimulus. Grant it, visual stimilus works for some women but as a whole you have to turn on a woman's mind first. <br />
Is it gay just because you want to see your gf do another guy? Of course not but why should that even matter. I think the hard boundaries that exist about male sexuality are pointless and rather unforgiving to men. They do not allow men to venture or even think in gray terms. They are too black and white. <br />
Welcome to EP and start reading more stories about wife sharing and you will find hundreds of others who share your desire and you will see that you are not so strange after all.<br />
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Casa

Larger smaller blab blab whatever when Ann gets it from her BF who is over 9" she is purring like a cat after I use to have a nice thick non cut 8" but it gone thanks to prostate cancer and other problems I can't perform AT ALL so thank God she has friends she is 63 and I am 77 more and more when it comes to a husband wife realationship its more her and her steady she's at his home more and more...... hey I can't deliver so I don't blame her and she lets me eat her and use my hand on myself, We been married over 44 years its true a bigger one can change her private part she's puffier and her buttion is bigger (I am writing this way so they don't block it out) J