Do I Virgins?  Wow, Th...

Do I Virgins?  Wow, that's a little coherent.  Well if you mean do I [do] virgins then no.  I have taken one virginity as of this moment and it wasn't my finest moment.  I can't say that I regret it because it was special to me and I did feel for the guy.  However, if I could purposely decide to take someone's virginity the answer would be no.  I don't like the idea that I leave a lasting impression on someone in that way.  (Even though my whole life's goal is to leave a positive lasting impression on every person I meet.)  That way is so ambiguous.  I mean they can always change their mind on how they feel about that experience.  I also don't want people to relate me that way to anyone else.  The question: Who was your first?, comes up in a lot of converstations, especially between potential lovers.  I don't want anyone thinking back to me in relation to that.  And I certainly wouldn't want any potential lover to hate me based on that.

Am I a virgin?  No.  I haven't been for a long time.  I can't say that I regret the experience.  I learned many invaluable lessons from that event in my life.  It opened up a whole new world to me.  Actually, I'm kind of grateful it happened the way it did.  Everyone makes sex into this huge deal that it really isn't.  I think if I, personally, would've waited until I was married I would've probably ended up having an affair just out of curiosity.  It's better that I got it out of my system when I did and got to learn about it in every aspect that I have.

theophania theophania
22-25, F
Jan 13, 2007