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She Told Me About The Old Boyfriend's Big ****

One night a few years ago we had planned to stay in watch movies and give each other massages. And well we were also drinking lemoncello, a lot of it, to the point that we were both a little wobbly. So the talk about sex became pretty fluid and uninhibited.

We started talking about out sexual pasts. I wasn’t surprised that she had quite a few men because she is very shapely and pretty. Now she had always given me the standard I was the biggest and the best she ever had, but on this particular night the alcohol allowed her to spill the truth. And I didn’t even have to pry it out of her.

We are both divorced when we met, and were both single for about 3 years before we got married to each other. So we talking about how many people we ****** in that time period, and she blurts out “I dated one guy for a year and a half and you talk about big…”. And I said “big in that way?”, and she didn’t answer, she just stared at me seductively. “So you have ****** a big ****?” I asked. And she just stared right into my eyes. And I asked again, and still no response, she just gazed at me. I was floored.

Well that opened the flood gates to a whole range of questions. I just had to know the details. Finally she says “Ok I’ll tell you, but do you want to know who it is because you know him?” I thought about that for a long while and said no. I still don’t know who it is to this day.

So she proceeds to tell me that he was huge. And I kept asking how big. So she said she never measured it but it was quite a bit longer and thicker than me. We have an assortment of toys so I drag them out of the box and have her tell me which one is closest and she points and says “that one” is pretty close. “That one” was one of those lifelike ****** with balls attached and a suction cup on the bottom. It is about nine inches long and really thick.

How many times did you **** it? Honey we were together for a year and a half, I was ******* it 4 or 5 times a week.

Did he use a condom? No

Did you suck it? Yes. Did he *** in your mouth? Many times. Did he *** a lot? Yes. More than me? Yes.

Did his **** make you *** harder than mine? Yes, he was so much bigger.

Could he last a long time? As long as I wanted.

Was he a better **** than me? Pause…pause…pause…Yes.

juliescuck juliescuck 46-50, M 17 Responses Mar 28, 2011

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I got the exact same response from my wife about her ex! It makes me *** so hard thinking about it

i love it when ladies talk about the big ***** theyve had. if any ladies want to pop a memory into my in box please feel free :)

My misses been with a moster one she was shocked could not take it all but did her best. Its a turn on but at same time wish I saw it or was me that big.

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Can't answer because of your privacy settings.

Most women seem to follow some unwritten law concerning the telling of past experiences. It is as if the world will come to an end if they fess up that they have had a big **** between their legs and they actually liked it. Maybe it is because they do not want to appear too slutty or that it is for our own good because even though we ask, our egos would forever be damaged if we knew the truth.

You have a big **** but if she has had 20 men, statistically, she probably has had one larger. That is by no means definite though. If she is VERY attractive the odds go up significantly. If she is attractive, hot, and sexy, you can bank on it.

Technically speaking I am sure the size of your **** has nothing to do with making her ***. I am sure you have researched and read all about this.

Julie is by far the hardest woman I have ever been with to make ***. The only reliable way is if she is on top. Even then it is not 100% of the time and often I will blow my load before her climax and hang on until she does. Only rarely can I make her *** missionary. I have NEVER made her *** from behind.

Her boyfriend is over 8 inches long and thicker than me. He makes her *** most of the time. She says this is mostly mental. That seeing his size beforehand, or poised to enter her, etc is extremely erotic and then just the feeling of fullness sets her off. I tend to believe her because I have seen him take his time to work it all the way in and as soon as he gets balls deep she starts exploding all over it before he even starts pumping her. In any case I have witnessed him make her *** numerous times from behind. The proof is in the pudding so to speak and I am jealous of that.

As for getting her to talk, I guess that takes her feeling like you are her soulmate, much time, her not feeling pressured, and a lot of martinis. And more martinis. And more martinis yet.

Hey guy, I had a similar situation and conversation. I knew my wife's ex and knew he was bigger than me, but I had no idea how much bigger. The first time we had sex, I found out. She was so loose that she had to hold me in. Note, he was her only partner before me. So, one day I just asked how big it was. She said 9" long and 7" in girth. She called him the soup can. I am 5.5" long and 4.5" in girth. I felt immediately inferior. It led to a lot of fantasy talk for several years. I actually got in to it and acceptd that her ex was a superior man in the sack. About five years ago, fantasy went to reality when she screwed him again at our high school reunion. They have had sex several more times over the past few years. She loves me and our life, but she just admits that he is better in bed and his size makes the difference.

yeah it is the fact that you can't do anything about it that is erotic for me.

No, I can't do anything about it. He has man-handled me before and embarrassed me in front of her. I know better to not say anything. She enjoys it and he has established his dominance over me. You know your place and accept it or you move on. I guess I have accepted it.

Did his **** make you *** harder than mine? Yes, he was so much bigger.

Could he last a long time? As long as I wanted.

Was he a better **** than me? Pause…pause…pause…Yes.

I LOVED reading this! Thank you.

I love hearing about my wife's past sexual experiences. She finally opened up to me last year about a guy she had an affair with for 2 years during her last marriage. I always knew there was something different there and finally she told me how big his **** was and how much she loved ******* him. 9 full inches and 6 inches around, very hard and could stay hard for numerous sessions. Turns out they would meet in the hotel on a Friday night and **** nonstop until she left Sunday morning. They didn't go out for fear of being seen, so they literally ****** the entire weekend. His wife didn't like it rough because he was so big so once every 3 or 4 months they would get together and he would pound her as hard as he could and she loved it. We have had fantastic sex while she tells me about ******* him and how great his giant **** felt.

She told me how sore she was afterwards, for days, and I could tell she really missed it. It has been over 7 years since she ****** him. We do like ********** with other guys and I asked her if she would like to **** him again. She couldn't believe I was serious and also said there was no way he would ever go for a *********. So I finally called him and explained to him that I was cool with everything.

We live in Austin and he lives in Florida. Now she is flying out there Saturday afternoon and getting there around 9 pm. He is picking her up and they are going to the hotel and have about 8 hours alone until he has to get her on a 6 am flight back home. They are not allowed to communicate at any other time and as long as this goes well, she will be allowed to fly out 4 or 5 times a year and spend a weekend getting ****** senseless. I have shared her with one guy that is that long but not as thick, and she goes crazy on his **** and afterwards is so swollen that is feels like a totally different *****. I can't wait to feel her after this guy. She will literally **** him all night, get on the plane full of his *** and fly straight home to me and tell me everything while I slide in and out of her feeling his ***. She is happy and I am happy.

That is really f'n hot

When I was dating my wife, I made a joke about her ex being small. She felt compelled to correct me and said, "He did NOT have that problem". I then asked if he had a big ****. To which she replied, "Oh yeah!". I then asked if I had a big ****, as my only reference to erect penises was ****. She diplomatically responded that I had a good girth. In other words, no. She later also let me know that he had very good stamina and could give her a penetrative ****** in one position which I have not been able to do. My ego has battled with this information for 15+ years. I just want her to be satisfied. I'm starting to feel like someone else may have to do it for me.

A cross to bear. Actually it turns me on that her boyfriend has a larger **** and further that it really satisfies her. Perhaps even more physically satisfying than mine, which she has said that it is.

My wife had an ex like yours does - and I love imagining it.

Oh the bitter sweet pain of the truth....that statement will give you years of wanking material. :-)

That is a fact

Nothing more exciting than a woman who loves a huge ****. <br />
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Sounds like you have to get these two back together and watch her REALLY enjoy herself. Maybe if you're REALLY lucky you'll get to hold her head still so she doesn't miss anything *wink*......!

Its a shame you've never seen that side of your woman. Get the guy and share in the pleasure that he provides.

I understand. Maybe when she gets together with him again, you can blow him a bit, help fit his **** in her *****, hold her arms if he gets a little rough...

I wrote on your wall that my wife told me about her bigger **** BF from long ago this weekend during sex. she even called out his name while i did her doggy style. i came so fast n hard. I am trying to get her to fly out to her home town for a reunion, this guy has no clue she would be coming out, or that i want my wife to open her legs to please him and her once more. I dont care if he is married, i will pay for their motel for the day and night if i have too. she said maybe, she hates to fly.

oh i forgot the best part...the really big guy didn't wear a condom when he did her.

She had a lot of big guys but she said that one of them was absolutely huge - almost as thick as a beer can. She had no problem telling me about him quite soon after we met. I also heard about all of the other guys that were bigger than me. She's very small but ****** a lot of big italian jocks when she was younger. I think about what it would like like for a big dark **** that thick to penetrate her like that. And it was her first time so it hurt her a lot. I know part of her still worships that huge **** and what it did to her. When she drinks with girlfriends she still talks about it like she's proud of taking all of it after it popped her cherry. I think it's kind of cool that her first time ******* was a proper ****. He was huge, lasted a long time, and did her really hard. Part of her hated it and part of her absolutely loved it. I want to buy her a ***** exactly that size but she doesn't want one that big.

Yes it really turned me on that she had a huge **** in her. I figured that she probably had because I had bought her "average size" toys in the past and she wanted bigger ones. Then she was saying that she preferred bigger ones. I always wondered how she knew that. <br />
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That was the beginning of me really wanting to watch her. I did a couple years later. The rest is history.