IT Sucks Most of the Time

just stop trying and do for ur self...

The one thing I miss is travel and communication with someone intelligent, my hormones have gone south I really don,t care about sex much....he of course does nothing to make me feel up to it either. I know I tollerate a lot at times with the hopes that one day I will live the life I want.

There are times I wish I was just dating and I could just break up andgo back to my condo and be at peace. The reality is when married it isn't so easy. I can so relate to what was written above no matter how hard I try nothing works with a miserable bastard! Some days are good others u want to run.

Goldie,



Your words touched my heart because it was like you were writing my story, I give my all and my life for him and I only get affection when he wants sex and then I am the one who initiates it. My soul and body aches for his touch the way he used to years ago when we were first going out. But know its like we are roommates most of the time I feel like a friend with benefit instead of his wife.

It's always more than one side of the story I am not saying that you are not going through these things but have you ever heard? It takes two! It does I knew some one who said that her husband did her like this and her husband did her like that. She never did anything wrong. I guess she didn't her name was Mrs. Perfect. Right a person cannot fuss alone if you ignore them they will shut up or leave. Sometimes they are wrong about things and the fuss break out and when the story is told It's blaming and name calling! I am saying that no one is perfect . It's your side the story His and God's.

i know exactly what you are saying Equis, and that is more than likely the case. but how do you reverse that. you cant all of a sudden just start being a *****, that is the lead to a whole different set of problems. i never knew marraige could be this hard. when your single it is so much easier to be selfish, so much easier to protect yourself. so much easier to walk away. so much easier to fight for you.

I've been in a relationship like that..fortunately I wasn't married to him. I know how much it hurts though.