It takes a lot of patience to spank your wife properly. You have to know when to check your wife’s behavior. Giving her the praise and love she deserves for a job weel done. Then when she is wrong remind her the rules that she has not followed and what she is going to get.
When you discinepline her. You have to be firm and decisive but full of love. Your wife needs to be taken in hand and led to a chair. Then her skirt has to be pulled up and panties down. After her behind is bared and you are ready to start once more remind your wife why she is to be spanked. Then you also tell her that it is your love for her that guides you in her discipline.
Now it comes to the spanking. Lift your arm high and slap hard first the center of one cheek then the other. Now is the time to move your hand from cheek to cheek never hitting the same spot more than once. Just let your hard hand go over your wife’s bared flesh with hard slaps. When she starts crying don't stop just keep on slapping hard, harder if possible.
Only after you feel that she has learned the lesson your love is teaching her. Should you stop. Now is the time for affection and love. Don't just dump her off your lap and send her to your favorite corner. Let her stay on your lap until quiet then she should be told to finish her chores just this time doing right.