Submissive Wives!! How Do You Please Your Hohs?

When I am alone in the house with my hubs, he asked me to remove my knickers because he said he should have access to my bottom at all times. I thought it was a very strange request at the time but it does make me feel very submissive to know there's nothing covering me.

These responses all make me smile inside. Dressing pretty and respectful and spending loving time together.... you know I don't deny we are pleasing our husbands when we are doing these things... but you know they bring us great pleasure too.

I know a lot of us are talking about clothes. I have to say I'm not nearly as traditional as you all are, I could never only wear dresses and skirts but I commend you for doing that! Sweat pants, booty shorts and jeans are my friends! But I am very feminine, and do love dresses and skirts, just not all the time. However, I never leave the house with sweatpants on and dress presentably for every occasion because I love fashion. Just throwing that out there haha.

So I get up with my husband every morning and we get ready together. I have always drank coffee while I get ready so I go put the coffee on when he's either showering or shaving. He showers every morning, I don't because it's time consuming and like to use hot tools on my hair, and keep it for two days, but I do shower with him on days I am :) So he loves to watch me pretty up and since I've been applying makeup since way back in middle school, I can multi-task. It's fun. Sometimes for breakfast I make my favourite Spanish breakfasts but a lot of the time we're in a rush so that's more of a weekend task. He cooks with me sometimes. I always give him a huge hug and kiss before he leaves. Then in a few minutes I'm out the door, so when we get home. And if I've been bad, when he gets home is normally spanking time. But that doesn't happen too often ;) I love to cook beautiful dinners for him, go on walks after dinner or on Sunday afternoons, tell him he's cute and handsome, cuddle him, we love watching TV together, be silly and playing around with each other, and of course sex. I enjoyed reading all your cute stories! So glad we have the privilege to enjoy our marriages like this :)

Well my husband really enjoys my hair in pigtails (cliche to me so I never used to do it) so now I try to have it nice, shiny, clean, and in braided pigtails by the time he gets home.

Something he doesnt require (yet) is me making his lunch for work, and coffee for the morning, but I try to get those done before bed if I have time.

I dont know, I feel like between two very small children I barely get time to do what I need to, much less extra. I feel bad I dont do much extra for him. :( I decline sex sometimes (though I do try) but my past makes this one difficult and he understands for the most part. I think I will try to aim for having dinner made, or almost made when he gets home every night. Make it a routine. Every time Ive done it in the past he has been super happy about it.

Thanks for making this post, because its given me a lot of thinking to do.

We've started a new tradition!
I have to get up really early 3 times a week - and now that hubby's in charge of my bedtime curfews - we go early to bed and snuggle!
We used to hang out in front of the TV watching mindless shows - not what I would call quality time together - so we've dropped TV and hug and kiss and cuddle instead!
Now I don't mind going to bed early at all and hubby is pleased!
It doesn't get any better! :0)

I read on another forum a question for all the ladies:
Do you ever say no to sex with your HoH?
I have to admit that it would be totally disrespectful to say no to a wish or desire my HoH had.
I think if you really love someone - then only illness or other body issues could be a reason for denying sex.
What do you think?

Ladies
Would like to add that DD is a two way street!
As much as I do for my HoH - he does for me.
He loves to wait on me hand and foot
buys me wonderful things - supports me, makes me dinner and shops!
He loves doing things for me because I have given him the reins to our relationship!

Reading through them comments it's hard for me to think of something. I'm trying to think of something new to focus on for him to be proud. He's on some medication that he has tended to forget taking, so I'm diligently giving him all his meds, plus some good vitamins to keep him healthy and strong. We work together and he does a lot of physical activity, so I try to line up things in a stress free way for him. I'm not sure if that all sounds romantic or not, but he is very appreciative. Also, the rule that he can have me anytime makes him happy. I'm a work in progress ladies, I'm not very submissive in my mind... I'm kind of a stinker and a brat that loves getting her way... so I'm working on it day by day. He says I make him proud, so that makes me happy.

I bought a few dresses to wear and talked to him about ditching the pants. He said to keep a few of them as he likes the way that some of my pants accentuate my ahem...curves. I make sure that the house is clean to his standards (he has severe OCD). I always ask him if there is anything he needs, I do what he asks me. He is easy to please, so long as I do what he asks it really is easy.

What a great story Jill! I am looking forward to reading other wives answers to this. I always make sure that I am physically attractive for him, I wear dresses and skirts mostly, sometimes in summer, cropped trousers or shorts in pastel colours with a cute blouse but I always dress femininely and wear light make-up and perfume every day.
My husband asked me to wear attractive underwear, I think it's important to do whatever you can so that you feel good in yourself and I agree that matching lingerie does make you feel good. I also do regular hair and beauty treatments at home, I wax my own legs and underarms and go to a beautician who does my bikini line.
I do a 45 minute aerobics DVD every morning so I try to keep myself healthy and motivated and I shower twice daily.
I also think a great way to support you HoH is to provide a place for them to de-stress and unwind, so you make you house a home, pay attention to the details and make a nice dinner for him to come home to. If dinner is going to be late or if there is something going on that means we can't eat together, I have cookie dough in the fridge so that I can bake fresh cookies if he wants them.
I also organise the children so that they are doing something quietly for the time when he comes home as no man wants to walk through the door to a stressful noisy house after a days work. The same is true of jumping on him to tell him all your news and "unload" about your day. We agreed I get my time to talk about my day once the children are in bed, we have both wound down and he can focus and listen more easily :o)

my HOH is not hard to please he just wants me safe and happy and he is pleased