I Live In A Domestic Discipline Relationship
So I have heard others talk about discipline while in public or in front of others, while I have never agreed with this, I don't tell anyone else how to treat his wife. I have to share this though, as I now am fully against spanking your wife in front of anyone and now in my mind actually consider this mental abuse.
My wife and I were invited to my brothers, my brother has a large family, himself, his wife Jules, and their three boys, so we always go there as its easier for us to hop in the truck and go.
My wife and Jules are great friends, sister in laws doesn't even really describe it, they are close. So when we arrived danielle immediately could tell something was up. Jules was quiet, she was cooking, so my wife stayed in the kitchen, while my brother, and I drank a beer or two in his garage.
Andy is a great guy, he practices our lifestyle, but is such a great father and husband. I look up to him in most cases. He is always so on top of things, his kids always come first etc. Which is why I was so surprised to hear him speak negatively of his loving wife. He told me Jules had lied to him, she told him something to get her son out of trouble (which is bad ladies), and instead of letting him be a father she lied for her son, then criticized Andy for being too hard on their boy.
I of course having no children try to listen and sympathize as who am I to give parenting advice? So I tell him, I imagine its hard for Jules to see her children upset, right or wrong, she's a mommy bear. We talked he seemed calm, we finished our beer and headed in for dinner.
Danielle looked irritated, I adjusted my belt, hoping she saw it, as the last thing I needed was my wife getting in it, and we all sat down to eat. So I am chewing the most delicious pork chop courtesy of Jules, when I hear, "so Andy, do you think its fair your wife got punished for something you do all the time?" While trying not to choke, I look at my wife and silently mouth "say one more thing, I dare you". My wife shut her mouth, knowing full well she was done for. My brothers poor wife was not as lucky, he stood up from dinner, grabbed his wife, and spanked her at the dinner table. Thank god no children were present, as I would hate to have to punch my brother but so would.
Jules was mortified. Of course dinner was ruined, his wife crying, my wife arguing in protest on her behalf. I picked my wife up and threw her over my shoulder, I kissed Jules cheek, waived to my brother and got in my truck.
"What in the hell was that little miss?" My eyes are squinty eyebrows raised. " well Nicholas ( she knows I hate it when she calls me that) your brother is a monster, why don't you find out what's wrong with him?" I am speechless, now on top of being shocked and a little dissapointed in my brother, I want to beat my wife within an inch of her life. " okay well just so you know mouth, your *** is in for it, Andy is the head of that household, not you, or me, you don't have to like his ways, but you will speak respectfully, I don't know what has gotten into you, but I am going to fix it." My cell phone rang, it was Andy, he told me he was sorry that he ruined dinner, I told him spanking your wife in front of anyone is uncalled for, and that to me is abuse. I hung up, many thoughts and emotions swirling in my head.
I arrived home, ready for battle. Undoing my belt walking the through the door. My wife knew I was pissed to, as she went right to our bedroom. "Daddy may I say something?" I cut her off, " nope, you've said enough, let's go". I gave my wife around 30 swats, and I held her down, so she felt every one of them. After I was done, I laid into her, telling her that if she's not careful she's gonna find herself at home, with nothing to do except think as she would have no privelages what so ever, kissed her forehead, and sent her to bed.
The whole situation was a nightmare, but reason I'm sharing, don't ever spank your wife in front of anyone, my wife feels so strongly about this she was willing to take one hell of a punishment protesting. Its also not mentally healthy for any party involved trust me.
My wife and I were invited to my brothers, my brother has a large family, himself, his wife Jules, and their three boys, so we always go there as its easier for us to hop in the truck and go.
My wife and Jules are great friends, sister in laws doesn't even really describe it, they are close. So when we arrived danielle immediately could tell something was up. Jules was quiet, she was cooking, so my wife stayed in the kitchen, while my brother, and I drank a beer or two in his garage.
Andy is a great guy, he practices our lifestyle, but is such a great father and husband. I look up to him in most cases. He is always so on top of things, his kids always come first etc. Which is why I was so surprised to hear him speak negatively of his loving wife. He told me Jules had lied to him, she told him something to get her son out of trouble (which is bad ladies), and instead of letting him be a father she lied for her son, then criticized Andy for being too hard on their boy.
I of course having no children try to listen and sympathize as who am I to give parenting advice? So I tell him, I imagine its hard for Jules to see her children upset, right or wrong, she's a mommy bear. We talked he seemed calm, we finished our beer and headed in for dinner.
Danielle looked irritated, I adjusted my belt, hoping she saw it, as the last thing I needed was my wife getting in it, and we all sat down to eat. So I am chewing the most delicious pork chop courtesy of Jules, when I hear, "so Andy, do you think its fair your wife got punished for something you do all the time?" While trying not to choke, I look at my wife and silently mouth "say one more thing, I dare you". My wife shut her mouth, knowing full well she was done for. My brothers poor wife was not as lucky, he stood up from dinner, grabbed his wife, and spanked her at the dinner table. Thank god no children were present, as I would hate to have to punch my brother but so would.
Jules was mortified. Of course dinner was ruined, his wife crying, my wife arguing in protest on her behalf. I picked my wife up and threw her over my shoulder, I kissed Jules cheek, waived to my brother and got in my truck.
"What in the hell was that little miss?" My eyes are squinty eyebrows raised. " well Nicholas ( she knows I hate it when she calls me that) your brother is a monster, why don't you find out what's wrong with him?" I am speechless, now on top of being shocked and a little dissapointed in my brother, I want to beat my wife within an inch of her life. " okay well just so you know mouth, your *** is in for it, Andy is the head of that household, not you, or me, you don't have to like his ways, but you will speak respectfully, I don't know what has gotten into you, but I am going to fix it." My cell phone rang, it was Andy, he told me he was sorry that he ruined dinner, I told him spanking your wife in front of anyone is uncalled for, and that to me is abuse. I hung up, many thoughts and emotions swirling in my head.
I arrived home, ready for battle. Undoing my belt walking the through the door. My wife knew I was pissed to, as she went right to our bedroom. "Daddy may I say something?" I cut her off, " nope, you've said enough, let's go". I gave my wife around 30 swats, and I held her down, so she felt every one of them. After I was done, I laid into her, telling her that if she's not careful she's gonna find herself at home, with nothing to do except think as she would have no privelages what so ever, kissed her forehead, and sent her to bed.
The whole situation was a nightmare, but reason I'm sharing, don't ever spank your wife in front of anyone, my wife feels so strongly about this she was willing to take one hell of a punishment protesting. Its also not mentally healthy for any party involved trust me.
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Age:
26-30
