5 D'S

Yes....that sounds about right ! Even though me and my hubby still have lots to learn together on this path , I feel just as you have said....I too have no desire anymore to argue, bicker or contradict ....I just have a wild, re-kindled passion for my husband...I just can't get enough of him !!

Oh Hon!! - that need to love, obey and serve your husband is such a wonderful and full-filling desire!
I never imagined that my main goal in life would be to please and pleasure my hubby, but it is and it feels so rewarding.
If I could drop my day job and be a stay at home wife, just to attend to his needs, I would do it in a heartbeat!!!
The more he is in charge, the more safe and loved I feel.
What is also wonderful is that our husbands become more involved in our marriage and are aware of the things we do. I have no secrets of any kind from my HoH anymore- I have started a small daily journal of the DD related things I do so my Hubby is in control of me even when he is at work. This gives him much more power to discipline me when he feels I need correcting. He is truly my husband, leader and head of our household!
The more our husband enforce the rules, the more loving the environment is at home.
Like Mr. Jon wrote below - take one day at a time, enjoy every day and all the things you can do to please your husband. I cant' think of a more natural way to live!! I love being treated like a queen! :0)
Hugs
Jack's Jill
ps - RobertaSunset recommended a great book by Dr. Laura Schlessinger called The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands.
It has all you need to learn to be a fantastic submissive wife - the best book on the subject!

God yes, I LOVE to obey and serve my husband. I just find it such a constant turn on lol.
I am a very lucky girl that I am allowed to be a stay at home mum/wife and because of my husbands generous gift to me of this I feel even more indebted to him. I make sure that I regularly thank him for going away to work and working so hard for us, and that I am so grateful for him allowing me to stay home so that I can care for his needs, our children and home.
He is a great provider and I neglected to recognise or be grateful for this until recently....so bad of me, I owe him so much.

I just hope that in time my hubby will be as controlling with me and my life as yours is to you. X

Oh...yes,thanks, I have read that book too xx

We are so on the same page!
You are doing such a great job already!
Every time you thank your Hubby for taking care of you and the family, the more masculine he feels. A masculine,respected and loved man is a happy man!

Don't look back at what you didn't do - you have your whole DD marriage in front of you. Domestic Discipline gives so many couples a new lease on marriage that they never thought possible.
Now is the time to honor and celebrate men! They have put up with so much male-bashing from horrible feminists that tried to destroy all that was wonderful about being male.
DD celebrates the male authority and I, for one, am ecstatic to be a part of it!
Your HoH WILL become more and more controlling as long as you keep giving him more and more control. The power exchange is a slow process - but so wonderful.
Recently I approached my HoH with my problem of not going to bed early enough.
I asked for him to give me bedtime curfews on work nights and told him I couldn't do it on my own - and now he sends me off to bed every night. (and he comes too!)
I also asked him to take care of all our finances, which he loves, and I told him that I would respect all his decisions - that he had the final say on all major issues. (we agreed that he would listen to my ideas and opinions before making the final decisions) But what ever he decided, I would support him with no contradictions.
We need their help for so many things - just ask!
They often know what is best for us!

Hugs
Jack's submissive Jill :0)

I'm terrible for staying up waaaay too late at night and then awful in the mornings so my hubby has given me a bedtime too. I think he needs to monitor it more though when he's away. Mine handles all the finances too....I said the same to him as you did to yours too lol !! He pays me a set amount into my account each month for the housekeeping and clothes etc and he handles everything else. X

Thanks. Time will tell, but he's coming around.

Thanks, dear. Every day it's a little better. :-)

LOL! yeah- I loved it, I can't deny it. I want more.. lol (am I crazy?) but that's just play. and we have to work on separating play from discipline. right now it's pretty confused. I don't think he even knows. He still won't admit he likes to spank me, but the "readjusting" always tells... lmao!

No, you're not crazy - the wanting more is the desire to have your HoH take you in hand and assert his authority and your desire to obey.
Often one partner is ahead of the other because they've had more time to think about it. Give him time - he'll catch up.
The results are overwhelming!

LOL, mine won't admit to enjoying spanking me either but I know he does ;-)

Spanking is a very serious business and most loving husbands don't enjoy spanking, but they do know how important it is to help us keep sight of our goals.
My HoH feels it is his duty to help me stay on track and takes his job of HoH very seriously. I think making love afterwards helps him a bit! :0)
I always thank him for disciplining me - that also helps him get over his aversion to spanking me.
It is the lesser of two evils - either he has a nagging, bickering wife, or a wonderful submissive wife who is spanked!
He'd rather spank! :0)

yeah- I have to plead with him to read things, so I am VERY choosy. I was shocked he read something last weekend, and then this weekend, too! he's been very spank-y lately. Good thing I've been pretty well behaved.. ;-)

Mine refuses to read anything on the subject too :-( He says he is not interested in what others think or do.