Unfortunately It's True.

I know this is true, because my wife told me the only reason she married me is because I was the only one who asked.
I thought I loved her, or maybe I thought I could love her, or I thought I could make it work and that love would conquer all.
But by her daily actions, words and deeds, she doesn't love me, she doesn't even like me.
She is scornful, hurtful, miserable, and has even told me she wished I was dead.
I think that is pretty telling...
dangerously39 dangerously39
51-55, M
5 Responses May 16, 2012

There are so many of us out there in your boat, and don't want to admit it as it looks like we failed at the biggest thing that we will do in our lifetime.
Also think when you have been with someone a long time it is scarey to think if you leave
them you would be all alone.
And then there is the dreded dating scene, and do you really want to go there again.
I wish there was groups that met once a week just to chat and be able to get a few things off our chests that we couldn't talk to our partners about or even a group on the computer, sometimes it's just nice to chat to people who might know how you are feeling.

It's over get out now. Get divorced. This only gets worse.

I'm so sorry to hear this. I understand and know my husband feels that way. I was his way to have children and get married his last chance... I was foolish and now our kids are involved. But I play a part too. I don't think I was ever fully in love I just love him enough to make me blind.

I wish I could say I didn't know exactly how you feel...but I do.

Hey msdamgoode, unfortunately there are many many of us in this boat. This should be a party cruise ship with so many of us out here, and looking... LOL

It's seems that we kind and sensitive souls attract the callous, and the ones who cannot love. It also seems that they are like a magnet to us. But now I have found the secret to identifying these kinds from the start, I hope it will serve me well in the future.