At 42 My Wife Hates Sex, Intimacy, Hugging, Everything
I find it hard to believe and if I wasn't living it, I wouldn't believe it to be true. My wife has absolutely no positive feelings or emotions and absolutely doesn't want to be touched by me - her husband. I can't even remember the last time she hugged me! A passionate kiss is impossible to get and I can't remember the last time she was willing to be touched much less have an intimate encounter or sex at all.
Twenty-twenty hindsight is amazing. When we dated she said I wasn't into the positive emotions or hugging, and sex enough. There was a time when we had sex an average of twice a day. Now it is none, zero, zip. While we were dating, I got her to go to church with me. Once I got her to go regulary, we both agreed that we should wait to have sex until we were married. So we did.
Now 20 years later she tells me that was when she turned off her emotions toward me and didn't want to touch me. Strange enough, when she wanted to have kids, she did. She took her temperatures and charted them to predict ovulation. Then she wanted to have sex twice daily around her ovulation cycle. To say the least, we produced kids fairly easily at that pace. Then when she didn't want anymore kids, it was hands-off. Our youngest is now 10.
Over the years there have been periodic rumors of her having an affair here or there. There is one high probability of a one night stand at a class reunion that I was not allowed nor invited to go.
Basically I am in an empty relationship, but worried about my children. In South Carolina it is hard for fathers to get custody of their children. If I could, I would.