I live in a similar marriage. My wife and I used to have sex quite often. Now I only have sex with myself. I have arranged my schedule so I can be only with my computer. I still love my wife, but have no intimacy with her at all. I still try, but over the last year, pretty much gave up hope. I am quick to anger and have no sympathy for her. Basically, we are roomates with kids. On average we kiss only once every few days. I have a wife, blonde, blue eyes, pretty, been married for 16 years but am very lonely.