I hate My Husband but love him

i love my husband, we have been maried 1 year. he does not want me, nor touch me, nor speak to me. I'm a good cook the house is clean, my mom loves him ...... I coulnt feel more lonely. I have a great family and great friends ........I couldnt feel more lonely.... i feel like i dont exist. What can I do?
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4 Responses Jul 19, 2010

Can you afford to get a divorce or to live alone? Do you need to stay with him?<br />
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Tell us why you are staying.

"It's like being married, but being alone"<br />
That's how I heard it described once.<br />
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There might be a large number of things you need to work your way thru yet, and the end result might be that you still feel alone. If that ends up being the case then maybe you are best to actually BE alone.

Get out, now! Do not pass go, do not collect 200 dollars GTFO! You have all the time in the world to meet someone else take some time off, stay with friends or family.

That bites. I won't tell you what to do. Just know we love you here and want you to be happy. You don't have to be as alone with this group. Sometimes they are a better family than mine ever was...