A Book You May Want To Check Out.The book is Making it as a Couple by Aaron T. Beck, MD.
We had purchased this book from a couples therapist we were seeing a couple of years back. We had only seen him a few times but he highly suggested the book so we bought it. He was very odd, I suspect had a drinking problem and his office which was in his home smelled horribly of cat urine so it was a very short relationship. We moved on and never really bothered to look at the book. I found it recently while unpacking some boxes in the basement . Unlike other books it is short and to the point, more like a workbook. My husband and I have started it and it really does make you accountable. You can probably take a look at it on amazon. I think it was pretty inexpensive. I wasn't going to bring it up but it is so different from the many books I've read I felt it was worth a mention.