I am new to this site. my husband and I have been together for 3 years only married for 10 months, we had a great sex life before we were married (he is 42 and i am 40) if we have sex once every couple months it is a lot, I love him very much and want to be intimate with him. its as if he has no desire i try to talk to him about it and he says he feels like things don't want to work right. I am at home by myself as he is an over the road truck driver so I only get to see him maybe every 2 weeks, I am not looking for him to preform every night when he is home but once in a while is better than none I don't think or feel that he is cheating on me he is a sweetheart and has a heart of gold and would never do anything to hurt me. this no intimacy thing is definitely got me frustrated .