I've posted this question in another forum around the time that it happened. It's hard for me to wrap my brain around taking on a sexual partner within my marriage. According to my wife she is "absolutely fine" with it. I don't want to ruin my marriage, but it does sound exciting. She has a few stipulations, it needs to be someone she, knows, and approves of like a mutual friend or something. How awkward? I don't know of any women who would sign up to be a surrogate within an existing marriage. Could this possibly work? Are my balls as close to the bandsaw as I think they are? I don't want to be a douchebag like the guy on "the sister wives". I do want to get laid though.