I Got Laid......now What?Well, It wasn't easy....I asked and of course I was refused, yet again. The old....I have a headache bit came to play. So I just rolled over to go to sleep. And to my surprise, He started touching me and turned me on and I had amazing sex with the Refuser. I am not trying to rub it in with those of you who have been dry for months or even years. I guess the reason why I am telling this story is because now I am more confused than ever before.
Our marriage isn't sexless, just terrible and on the verge of sexless (2x a month). And then out of nowhere, after 2 years of terrible sex and refusals one after the other, he becomes romeo and lights up the bedroom. I have been talking to another man and I had almost decided that I would start an affair with him to fulfill my sexual urges and needs and then..........this happens. Not that I am ungrateful for the event, It has just left me confused. I wonder if this is a one time thing? I also wonder why he has held out the incredible love making from me?!?!? I dont think I have ever been so pleased by him. NOW WHAT? Has anyone been through this already and what can I expect to happen next? HELP!