Sexless, Sexless, Sexmore?
it has been quite a while since i have partaken in this forum. it was such a good support for a time, knowing that many suffer the same way that i did. coping is painful and one gets even more lost in that period of their lives. for me personally, the more i dwelled in my situation, the more it affected me. so i turned a new leaf and completely focus on bettering myself mind-body-spirit. i became more confident and as a positive symptom, became very attractive to many, especially my wife. quite frankly as soon as i was ready to venture and explore, my sexless marriage became sexMORE marriage. we seem to be having the time of our lives and i am engulfed in the passion in her that was so lost for so long? i encourage all you to not just hang in there, but take positive action in bettering all the arenas in your life that you can. this way, you will be prepared to make better decisions, but more importantly feel great about yourself, which is quite the turn on to the opposite sex. when you focus on a problem, the problem becomes bigger, when you focus on success, it prevails. you will emanate that winning attitude that everyone wants to be a part of. it is easy to feel sorry for oneself and sit back and complain how dredful this stage of a relationship is, but the alternative of taking action brings results, brings clarity, brings changes... try it, i highly recommend it.