Wife Seeming To Still Try?After talking with my wife last night she offered that maybe the reason she lacks interest is her tiredness due to my snoring. I will fully admit I snore and have been diagnosed with mild sleep apnea. Her sometime tiredness due to this is not a new revelation. I tried using a machine for a little while but quit because I had trouble sleeping with it and my wife poked fun of me cause it does look kind of weird (she has later apologized). Since I am otherwise in very good shape and the apnea didn't make me tired at all during the day, I quit using the machine. She said prior to living together, she'd at least have 1 or 2 nights a week without me snoring in her ear. So, partially upon my suggestion, I slept in a different room last night so she could try sleeping without snoring. This may or may not continue until I can head back to the doctor and find a different solution (which I'll have to do eventually anyways as the problem will likely get worse as I get older).
More importantly, she stated that this new theory regarding the issue is another thing on the checklist (her word) she is going down to determine why she has no interest. This sounds promising to me, as if she really is trying to figure out what's wrong. Meanwhile, she shows all other kinds of affection, spends time making a photo album of our recent trip, and gives every other indication she really does care about us. Sleeping in different rooms is definitely weird, but I'd rather do that and have sex than sleep in the same bed and not. Honestly, sleeping next to her can make me angrier cause we're right next to each other and don't have sex.
My question is, do you think she's legitimately trying to figure this out? Or is this just another stalling tactic or way to put the situation back on me? As I said, I really do snore. Am I just telling myself this might improve?
ealge17 26-30, M 18 Responses 0 Jul 13, 2011