is still sexless for the most part, but there is the occasional hand job or blow job. I still miss the fun and passion my wife and I used to share and hope that someday it all comes back before its too late. Sex has little to do with why I love my wife.....I want and enjoy sex with her because I love her. I am happy with our marriage. I couldnt ask for better or more in spite of the lack of sexual intimacy. Im just scared that this is something that we will lose as time goes on....it helps make our relationship complete.