Sexless, Lonely MarriageI have been married to my husband for 20 yrs. We have not been intimate in the past four years. He sleeps downstairs and I sleep upstairs.
He says he has no libido due to blood pressure medication that he takes. Also, he has gained so much weight that now he is over 300 pounds and I think this adds to the lack of libido. He works many long hours and doesn't get home until very late. He has no idea what I do with my time and does not even ask.
Our youngest son has just gone off to college and I know I will not distress the family by leaving the marriage. I just want to fill some of my lonely time with someone else who has a similar situation.