What Do I Do ???
My husband and I have been with one another for 5 years out of them 5 this coming Sept 28Th will be 4 years of being married and NO SEX !!!! Where do I start with my story, well he is from Europe and I am from the great USA, he is very loving and caring person and I think I still love him I have tried just about everything to get him to make love to me ...and nothing...we have never consummated our marriage..yes you have read it correctly NEVER !!!! I have offered him oral but he want it to be a one way thing ...he want something but give nothing in return , I have cried myself to sleep over this so many times, I have asked him for a divorce several times but he won't consider that ......The most hurtful thing through all of this is each time the subject come up about sex it me who initiate it, and he always say why should he be the first one to make the move I should try and seduce him HELLO..I lay beside him every night naked , After one of our many talks and promises from him that he will try I found out that he would rather ********** then to have sex with me...oh that hurt so badly after that day I never looked at him with love in my eyes he also told me that because he lived alone he was use to touching himself , but yet he told me during the process of us getting to know one another that he had made love to a woman before ...but then he tells me he LIED !!!!! I am truly at my wit ends with this relationship, I cannot got to my family and friends and say hey my husband won't have sex with me ..it is just too embarrassing !!!! I need help with this matter because right now I am considering a divorce in the very near future ...please any advice will do ...Thanks