Newly Married!but No Sex!Hey there,
it felt so great to find out this site. I found out that I am not alone!
well we are married for 10 months now but we hardly have sex. may be twice or thrice a month. I just cant figure out whats wrong! well physically my husband is very fit..he don't have any biological problem.. in fact we dated for 2 yrs before marriage and then everything was so good...he was romantic, charming and we have had passionate sex sessions quite often..but i don't know what has changed after marriage..he is totally a different person now. to start from honeymoon...we had a little fight about his father and so WE HAD NO SEX IN HONEYMOON! CAN U BELIEVE THAT????? he was so sulky all the time that we returned from out trip early....after that he said countless sorries to spoil our trip...but now a days he doesnt even feel like having sex..if I start complaining any day about it..then that night he does sex with me to explain that everything is fine...he do it somehow and reluctantly..like he doesnt want to waste time and want that to be over within half an hour..I hardly have any ******...sometimes he says that I am a psycho that I want too much sex....I am so depressed and frustrated..i have tried to commit suicide but couldnt...I feel like he doesnt love me anymore...but he says he does...and he cant even think of divorce.....coming back from work he keeps on watching TV and on holiays also he keeps on watching TV....its not that I am unattractive.. I am an extremely good looking girl...when i go to a party everyone would comment that "You are looking dashing"..."u r gorgeous" kind of stuff....but my husband never says a word if i look good...he shows that he doesnt even care how beautiful I am....when my male friends say to me that i am sexy, beautiful i kinda burst in tears....what a irony...every man wants me..but the person I love doesnt seem intersted...i tried to make him jealous sometimes talking of other boys..it didnt help....I am going crazy about my sexless marriage..what do i do...i love him a lot..he cares for me a lot...but he doesnt want to have sex...sometimes when i take initiatives some times he responds and sometimes he doesnt...but u guys tell me is it always possible to complain...i am tired....Just dont know what to do...
You guys tell me what to do?
Am i really a psycho?