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I Live In a Sexless Marriage

Moving Day

By: BrainiumCranium
Written on February 4th, 2012
She moves today. I move in 2 weeks. Do I have to leave the group?
Oh, I guess its more like I GET to!
Hehehe I guess I will join "I ate it in a divorce settlement" :-D
By: BrainiumCranium
Age: 56-60 , Male
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13 responses
  • Kathryn1985
    Kathryn1985

    With much trepidation you take the first step. Then a smile.

    Feb 5, 2012
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  • pfer
    pfer

    I got out in November last year. I got to the sex part a week ago. Having intimacy with someone who loves intimacy too, who means something to you and who finds you attractive is just unlike anything I've experienced in my life. Best thing ever!



    You ARE going to be fine. When you get a little further on, you'll know why I am so certain for your future. Enjoy this, it's been hard. Be gentle on yourself, it's been hard. You are acting as the master of your life, as long as you continue to do this you WILL be fine.



    Good luck on your road, don't leave us though :)

    Feb 5, 2012
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  • flyingstone
    flyingstone

    LOL congrads to you! Stay with the group. I am sure you have made friends here and the newbies will be so happy to talk to someone who has walked through the fire. A new group should form ....I left a sexless marriage or the title that RickiChickie suggested. Then the newbies could find out what it is like after leaving a marriage like that.

    Feb 4, 2012
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  • RickiSchnucki
    RickiSchnucki

    Create a new group! I lived in a sexless marriage.

    I hope you will be able to enjoy your new single life! ;-)

    Feb 4, 2012
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  • loyalguy
    loyalguy

    Yes..true no sex yet but you have the opportunity to do so unhindered or with the strings of marriage on your conscious. You can also coach us too! Good luck!

    Feb 4, 2012
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    • BrainiumCranium
      BrainiumCranium

      I feel nothing like a guide for others. There was no honor, no greatness in what is playing out. I have no wisdom, it is still a shock, it's very dusty and reverberant in the house, who know when there will even be another cuddle? Much less a blow job, lol! Today's received guidance is "just chill" :)

      Feb 4, 2012
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  • BrainiumCranium
    BrainiumCranium

    It doesn't feel like success yet, since I haven't gotten to the sex part yet. All I did was lose the marriage part. So much work!!!!

    Feb 4, 2012
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    • theaterlover
      theaterlover

      I'm with you there.. got out about two weeks ago.. mostly empty house now.. But, I'm sure it will get better.. I hope..

      Feb 4, 2012
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    • flyingstone
      flyingstone

      Congratulations theaterlover--I just filed. It will get better --I am going to play music and dance around after I am divorced lol

      Feb 4, 2012
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  • TheWendigo
    TheWendigo

    No don't leave. Stay and help the rest of us get out. You are a success story and we need those desperately here. Congrats, by the way. When it comes to divorcing out of an SM, even when you lose (eating it), you win.

    TW

    Feb 4, 2012
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  • louiseshaw
    louiseshaw

    No, you don't have to leave the group. Now you join the 2012 graduating class and pass on support to the newbies. Enjoy your move!

    Feb 4, 2012
    2 likes