About to Marry Into a Sexless Relationship
My fiancee and I split last year, and against all of my rules about dating, I agreed to give it another shot. It turned out I had changed, he had changed, we communicated better, we were more affectionate. He even committed FINALLY by proposing. Well we've been back together for 10 months, and as it turns out our seriously lacking sex life has seemed to creep its way back into our lives. This was a BIG issue for me, and the residual rejection I felt when I first left the relationship. It was discussed and understood i thought when we got back together that this had to change, that I deserved to be wanted, etc...
Well it looks like old patterns do not die. I finally have a man I love, Hes committed, he's willing to have children, but he's not interested in sex much. I've tried talking to him and he agrees, and then I wait and wait or I'll initiate and get shot down again!
Would I be making a mistake walking away from all of the other things because of the sex?