First Steps To A DecisionI've taken the first steps since my last post (Fragments of a Broken Dream). During a walk with my wife yesterday we commented on how two co-workers with health problems were handling their issues. One has embraced the change and the other hasn't. Health issues are what my wife cites as the reason for her lack of interest in sex. She also cites a lack of time to exercise.
Her work schedule gives her Wednesday afternoons off. She chooses to use the time shopping. Since I also pickup the kids from school she pretty much has the afternoon to herself. I offered to do the shopping so she could get to the gym. She agreed. About twenty minutes later she started explaining that she would be making some cupcakes for our daughters upcoming birthday. I reminded her that I was offering to do the shopping so she could get to the gym.
I'm starting to pull the mask off the excuses. We'll see if she makes it to the gym Wednesday. I'll withhold judgement.
Meanwhile I've logged seven miles on our treadmill...yep..you hear me right. She insists on the difficult logistics of the gym, etc. in lieu of a professional quality treadmill in our ba
I also scheduled an appointment with a marriage therapist. She may, or may not be useful, we'll see. In my next post I'll share the letter my wife will get explaining my reasons for the marriage therapist.