The Madonna - ***** Complex
While talking to friends and through some research of my own, I think that my fiancee is suffering from the Madonna-***** Complex. There seems to be different variations on the definition of this condition... but the one that seems to fit us best, is that he views Love and Sex as 2 seperate things that cannot be combined. He views me as the wife, mother of his kids, perfect, virginal, old fashioned good girl house wife. Anything relating sex to me is dirty, wrong, and not right. Which would explain why he uses the fact that we have to be really connected with each other to make love, and that any sort of of spiced up sexual experimentation with me just isn;t his thing.
Meanwhile he seems to get off by occassionally watching ****. He gets his kicks from ***** like figures in his mind that have no connection to love.
Before I came to this realization, he had mentioned to me about a month ago, that he has had this problem of sex of women that he truly loves! Have I hit the nail on the head.
Has anyone had any experiences with this condition? Any thoughts? Either way... I'm not prepared to play the virginal, old fashioned house wife the rest of my life. My ex loved dirty sex, and love making, and thats what every relationship deserves!